I am recovering from oneitis from a disastrous situation that drug out over three years. My current situation is I am 7k in debt, can't find a job, just a disability check, no vehicle,had to move back in with parents in my 30s, and 40 lbs overweight. Trying to find a starting point for self-improvement to get some sort of game. The biggest sticking point for me is the lack of a vehicle and the debt. It makes meeting people or having much of a social life nearly impossible.

I am not sure due to circumstance where to start to get myself together. While I have an academic knowledge of PUA, the current situation makes me feel it is either impossible to work on, or should take a back burner until I can get my life situation improved...i.e. pay off the debt, getting a vehicle, and getting in shape...the former taking years with my income.

Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

In the book the game neil talks about others who did this, making debt, vehicle etc, a main goal instead of just doing both causes you to be in the same position once you have these things. It's a limiting belief. Even if you have nothing to offer you still can practise and learn. so that when you do have those things later, you will be more ahead of the curve instead of far behind