I've read many times that you don't ever want to come off as angry to a girl when she doesn't do something you like. If you do, she will lose all attraction. However, in some situations, wouldn't it be ok? Wouldn't this show that you know what you want and you won't settle for less? Won't it let her know that you're the dominant one? I feel as though in relationships, you need to let your partner know that you are in charge. And to know do this, don't you have to get "mad" at them and let them know that they made a mistake?

Here is my situation.

I was talking to this chick late at night. She was sending me VERY dirty texts. However, she wouldn't send me a nude pic. I got mad and basically said, "I'm going to bed. You're not giving me a reason to stay awake."

Was this wrong?

This is a good question. I would also like to hear some responses to this. I have a new GF and she shows up a bit late at times, so instead of getting mad I counter this with being late myself and outdoing her. If she flirts with another guy in front of me, I do the same with another girl.

But the thing is, it doesn't discourage her. I think the general idea is to do the same thing to her, then have her bitch about it, then the two of you can discuss some boundaries neither of you should pass

Another thing my girl does is go "I was going to text you, then I decided not to" to try to get a response out of me. I just ignore this shit test and pretend like I don't care. But it never discourages her from doing it again!

Anger is DLV I believe, because it shows you care too much

Yes and no

Yes because on one hand A high status guy is not going to hide how he feels to keep the girl happy...

No because on the other hand a guy with abundance isn't going to be that attached to whatever the girl's doing & wouldn't be concerned either way.

so obviously this is a catch 22, but what I recommend doing is just be honest and willing to walk.

get some other girls lined up, tell her what the deal is but don't try to make it work.. it's on her, if she want's it she'll get her shit together, if not... abundance >>>>

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If it is a truly disrespectful or bad situation, then yes, call the girl out.

If it is a cry for attention, or some bullshit going on then act completely unaffected.

You must be able to gauge how to respond to different situations, usually, you will be bale to instinctively know what is serious, and whats not. Be in an alpha mindset when you do gauge. Would an alpha care? If he would, then call the girl out. Always stay calm and collected.


In this case, was a nude pic really that big of a deal? No. Be happy she texted you dirty.
Pushing all that in one night may be asking for too much investment from one girl in such a short period of time of texting. space it out.

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That was silly because your were trying to muscle her into doing what you wanted. Seduction isn't a game of force, its a game of cun and charm.

Its impossible to never get angry, we're human beings but don't make the mistake of thinking that anger is going to get you want you want or earn you respect in your relationship. Your girlfriend has to know that you will "leave" if things get to out of hand.

If your mentality was " If she doesn't send me nude pic I am never talking to her again.. No matter what" she would of sent you a thousand nude pics. Now this is not something you "say" its just something you believe and stick to. Everything else you say will kind of sub-communicate it to her. A woman is only going not do what she can get away with not doing. She may test you, but if you stand your ground they will always come around.

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What would you guys do in this scenario:

Girl never flakes, sex is often with her initiating, never doesn't respond to texts BUT

When SHE is the one who is doing the traveling to a date, she is generally late, aka

We agree for her to come by my place when she gets out of work at 3:00, then she shows up at 3:35-3:45 even though her work is 10 min away, and this is consistently

What I have done to counter this is not show any anger, but show up at 4:00 because I go run an errand and make HER wait, then we hang out as planned. This has NOT changed her behavior though! It makes me look stronger than just waiting, but the underlying issue is not solved! I can't show displeasure though, because this has been done a good number of times and it would look like I have been putting up with it