I know a cute, hot, super energetic 24 year old girl. She looks about 20-21, but I found out she's 24. She knows I'm good looking, I can tell by the way she looks at me (is it just me, or is there really 'A look'?). Would it be weird and ridiculous if I try and hit on her?

Not at all. My first lay I was 19 and she was 24 going on 25. It was really good.

Another girl was 24 and I was 20. I've had quite a few older girls that I almost got with as well. Go for it!

So that's a start. The problem is, being inexperienced and completely not good at any pick-up at all (AFC), I can't think of a way of hitting on her without imitating the other dozens of AFC's who already tried to make a move on her and failed. After all, she is 24 and hot.

So any ideas on standing out from the crowd?

I dated a 23 year old for a few months when I was 19, and then had a serious relationship with a 22 year old.

Just be mature and confident. If she already has interest in you then keep doing what you do. If you don't make age an issue she won't either. You even trying to seduce her is already more than what most men do. Trying to stand out from the crowd will just make you seem like you're giving this special attention. Treat it as something you'd do any day. Who cares if she's 24. Do what you'd do with a 19 year old.

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I haven't posted on here in a while, just been lurking but the older women posts get me going!

At 18 I slept with a women in her 40's, some in there 20's and a couple in late teens.

If you feel she is giving you the signal then go for it, what ever you are doing its working so keep it up.

Good luck

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this is actually a good step in the right direction

The dude's who get laid by any girl's they want get laid because they feel like the DESERVE those girls...

so hell yeah go for the 24 year old girl

she works like any other girl... she feels chemistry, laugh's & giggles, gets turned on & wants to fuck

don't let her age mystify you into thinking she's somehow ABOVE human sexuality & you can't touch her, that's complete socially conditioned inferiority speaking & THAT is the exact voice in your head that need's to be put on mute

I'm 22 and I did something similar with a 27 year old.. here's the life of a 27 year old.. clean the house.. watch tv.. go to work.. rinse and repeat

THERE'S NOTHING SPECIAL GOING ON THERE.. your prob the most exciting thing to happen to her, but unless you ACT LIKE IT, she's not gonna let you have sex with her..

it's like haggling at a car dealership.. if you want it for 10,000 but she knows you'll settle for 15... YOUR GETTING IT FOR 15 BRO.. so don't settle..

repeat after me.. say this out loud because the ridiculousness will help you get in state and break your socially conditioned identity...

I [insert your name here] hereby solemnly swear, to raid a bitches panties.. regardless of creed, color, race or nationality.. & that no girl is above the wrath of my shlong... & I shall swindle the whores of alpha males for miles and miles.... amen..

lmao I'm wildin.. but seriously, your going in the right direction, you shouldn't even question it.. do it again and again, its the right thing.

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Thanks for your replies.

So how should I ask her out? "Hey do you wanna go get a drink?" Or "Hey, we're going for a drink together", Or "hey, why don't we go for a drink sometime?" I mean, how should I phrase it?

I'll share with you my worries:

1. I ask her out, she agrees, than I wouldn't know how to progress and make the situation more sexual than friendly, and we remain friends (that actually happened to me a few times ).

2. I ask her out, she agrees, I am able to escalate the situation into a more sexual one, we kiss, and since it would me my first kiss she'll think "hell this guy kisses my like he's eating french fries" and she'll be turned off.

Admit that you have no experience with girls to her. You will lower expectations, so things will be easier for you and she will like your honesty.

don't worry

the things your worried about are purely figments of your imagination

only look at whats directly in front of you, don't even think about the girl unless your talking to her.. even then the attention you give her is mostly peripheral.

& honestly, the only way to make it sexual is probably gonna be uncomfortable to you and the girl but it's the right thing to do.

girl's don't fuck guy's their comfortable with, plain and simple.. you ever see a girl act "comfortable" at a concert for her favorite singer hell no, she's all over the place with that nervous excitement.. you have to make girls nervous in a good way to get them to have sex with you.

the same way your super worried about what this girl thinks about you is how SHE should be about YOU...

Now normally you either got it or you don't, but there IS a way to jam that same vibe into gear if your good..

and it requires you to be deliberately awkward and over-escalate on the girl in a very irreverent & authoritative but still light hearted and fun way..

like if I do this, I'm gonna get RIGHT in the girls face in a way thats completely uncomfortable for her.. but I'm not gonna make any apologies for my actions.. this is me.. take it or leave it... and I'm gonna run the same cocky funny game but all in her face where the physical connection is more apparent and the interaction feels more visceral and sexual..

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_prE6BOl4o[/youtube]
like that ^^

go for make outs.. if she says no, persist.. if she allows me, try and arouse her so she's getting super super horny and therefore less concerned with consequences or what she is or isn't "supposed to" do.

and eventually she gets so horny that she begins to initiate sex and I just get out of the way and let her..

thats probably a farrrrrrrrrr cry from where your at, but just an example of what to shoot for.

as a newbie, I think your best bet is gonna be to "baby step" your sexual intentions

so.. you wanna take it really slooooooooowwww, don't rush anything.

before you escalate, you wanna preframe her so she expects it & doesn't resist it as much..

"would you get offended if I tried to make out with you?"

"I just like you but don't wanna come off weird"

don't be permission seeking (a little bitch), but be empathetic and considerate towards the girl so she graaaaaadually comes around to giving up more and more power in the interaction...

remember slowwwwwwwwww and fun... keep her laughing, don't let the excitement die down.. but keep leading the interaction to a sexual place slowly but surely..

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