Hi guys,

I need some help here. I’m 27 years old and I am not a great fan of online social networks like facebook, but about 4 years ago I created a facebook page because at that time I noticed that everybody had one and I was the only person who didn’t have a facebook page. When I was meeting girls I’ve noticed that most of them thought that I was weird because of not having facebook. I always told them that I prefer talking face to face not through the internet and so on, but they always thought that not having facebook was strange and creepy. So I decided to create a facebook page, but now the situation is a lot worse than before.

I have around 100 friends on facebook and the only comments I have there are from 5 or 6 people saying “happy birthday” everytime I increase my age. I don’t have recent photos with girls to put there (in order to show other people that I am an alpha male) because my only friends right now are nerdy guys from work. Basically I’ve been working on the IT industry for the past 6 years with a bunch of nerdy guys (most of them don’t even have facebook pages), and unfortunately I don’t talk with women as much as I wish. I’m trying right now to talk to women during weekends at some local activities and that’s it.

I’m not very handsome, I’m bald, but I always dress nice and clean, so everytime I start conversation with a new girl and ask her to go to the cinema/take a coffee or something like that, she thinks to herself “well this guy is not a model for sure and he does not seem to be an alpha male, however he seems cool so I will give him a shot. 50/50 chance”

I live in a medium sized town and my issue here is that everytime I speak with a new girl, she sooner or later is going to check my facebook page or ask someone to show her my facebook page, and when she sees that I only have 100 friends and no comments/likes there, she automatically thinks that I’m a loser. Then when we meet again, she will always ask me: “why don’t you have friends on facebook? Why does nobody care about you and give you happy birthday?” and so on. I start saying that I don’t care about facebook, blablabla, but inside her head she always thinks “bald + not cute + few facebook friends + no alpha male photos = loser and creepy guy”.

Basically I’ve been a loser since I was born but I’m trying to fix this right now because I want to change my life. I am able to make decent conversation with women but my facebook page is ruining it all.

I don’t know what to do. I don’t like facebook and I don’t like the idea of start adding random people and girls to be my facebook friends because I don’t want to be known as a desperate guy. I didn’t make much friends and contacts when I was younger so right now I’m on this awkward situation. Everyone has +300 friends and lots of comments from other people on their facebook pages. My facebook page is the opposite.

Is it better to have a loser facebook page or no facebook page at all? 27 year old with no facebook = strange. 27 year old with no friends and comments on facebook = strange.

I really don’t know how to deal with this…

Kidnap some girls and take them on a fun weekend... or else. Lol do you go on facebook just to negatively judge people? Do you even want to associate with people like that? If you dont put much on fb people are just going to assume you don't post much.