As much as I enjoy giving advice on confidence and body language and my own personal conquers, I too always am looking for help and to grow. So, I know there are many guys here who can help me.

So, last night I head out to a college bar with a buddy of mine and a guy he knows as well. This other guy is meeting up with two girls he knows (one he has hooked up with). I am really setting out just to catch up with my buddy who I haven't seen in awhile and drink some as I have been super tied up with work. But bagging pussy is always a plus.

Now, being a college bar at midnight it was packed, shoulder to shoulder and super loud. Some cute girls sprinkled throughout, though none I really was craving for but some of them could have got it.

I made some conversation with the girls the one kid knew but didn't really take it upon myself to strike up convo with any other ladies. I almost felt like the creepy dude lurking in the back and if I striked up a convo it came out of desperation or something. '

For example, two girls (one very cute) were dancing somewhat to themselves and a creepy dude was grinding to himself right behind them trying to break into their little circle. I came up to the cute girl nonchalantly and told her "this guy was working super hard for her to dance with him, go get him." After that I really didn't know where to take it so I decided if she got any interest from that I could just play the cold card and not try to grope her so I turned away completely.

Am I becoming cold to these big sloppy college scenes? I have been gaming woman at my new job like crazy and it almost feels more comfortable to do it sober. This club scene has always been kind of a weakness. I find it hard to approach women who are enclosed in their circle with something to say or do that will snap the interest on and keep them their without being tipsy. Afc mentality there...help.

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Here's what I think happened... You're in a college bar. Loud music. People sloppy drunk, dancing, spilling beer all over and what not, friends throwing up in the bathroom. And you go up to a girl who was just dancing and having a really good time and NONCHALANTLY say this guy was working super hard for her to dance with him, go get him" and turn away... I wouldn't know what more you could expect for them to say "okay, cool." and go back to whatever they were doing. Now, had you RUN UP ON THE GIRL, saying "OMG! THIS GUY SO WANTED TO DANCE WITH YOU!!" and start pushing her towards the guy, (don't pull her, push her... don't push the girl over either. If she doesn't respond to the push by going with you, just roll with it.) the energy level of the interaction would be spiked just a little bit. This is a situation where you can make out with the girl in a matter of minutes as long as you can read her well. College bars are full of girls that want to get fucked man.

That is along the lines of what I was thinking, appreciate it. After a second thought, I was just on another level than everyone else. They were all in 5hrs deep of hard drinking. My mindset was not there. It happens.

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