We hook up at parties but otherwise don't talk. Help?



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 03, 2013 6:09 pm 
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Hey guys. I'm not very active here as I don't usually have these problems but anyways...

There's this girl, I'd say an 8, I met a long time ago at the beach and I had the balls to approach her and her friend. I've met her in a party a few weeks ago and we hooked up, and then in another one.. Though during the second party I had to go see a friend and later on I saw her hooking up with another guy.
Other than that we don't talk, I tried texting and Facebooking but she doesn't answer my messages so I stopped. It's weird as fuck, and I'm not sure if she wants me and is acting hard to get, or most likely she's just one of those girls who likes to play with guys.

Any ideas on what I should do? I'm sure she's not a virgin, but getting her into bed wouldn't be easy.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 03, 2013 7:16 pm 
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Though during the second party I had to go see a friend and later on I saw her hooking up with another guy.
You saw her fucking another guy and then you were texting and FB messaging her like you're some needy little kid? That's why she isn't responding to you...


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 03, 2013 8:03 pm 
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You saw her fucking another guy and then you were texting and FB messaging her like you're some needy little kid? That's why she isn't responding to you...
Hooking up, as in kissing. Not fucking.
I wasn't texting or messaging her like crazy, I texted once and sent her two messages. I don't go chase girls like that, I have better things to do. But I'm pretty interested in adding her to my list.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 03, 2013 8:09 pm 
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she is clearly a party girl, dont take her seriously, be fun and playful and project value, any real effort is a waste of resources. What does your list consist of? girls you kissed at random party's and friend requested?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 04, 2013 6:56 am 
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she is clearly a party girl, dont take her seriously, be fun and playful and project value, any real effort is a waste of resources. What does your list consist of? girls you kissed at random party's and friend requested?
Hahaha. No. It was a joke and I was talking about girls I banged. And I'm not taking her seriously. I've hooked up with her best friend last night.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 04, 2013 7:00 am 
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Like Joker, I assume hooking up means fucking.

Either way, did you ask yourself on why she didn't message you on Facebook? Are you trying to wife her after kissing her a few times? C'mmon man.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 04, 2013 7:08 am 
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You saw her fucking another guy and then you were texting and FB messaging her like you're some needy little kid? That's why she isn't responding to you...
Hooking up, as in kissing. Not fucking.
I wasn't texting or messaging her like crazy, I texted once and sent her two messages. I don't go chase girls like that, I have better things to do. But I'm pretty interested in adding her to my list.
LOL You've gotta realize something man. If you want a girl who is gonna really get down and have fun, you are going to accept the fact that she is a horny individual as well and wants to get fucked. Meaning she is going to fuck whoever turns her on. You weren't there to turn her on. Someone else did... Or atleast started to.

Girls make out with guys ALL THE TIME. I can't tell you how many girls I've made out with. I've had nights where I will make out with 5-8 girls during the duration of the night... just bouncing around like a fucking pin ball and making out with random girls. I've accidentally bumped into girls and made out with them. Didn't even say a word. You are going to have to realize that girls do that type of shit... and if you want the type of girl who is going to fuck you cause you made out with her, you are going to, again, accept the fact that's the type of girl she is. You can't change that unless you fuck her better than anyone else does. And right now, you haven't even fucked her. So do it... or she will try to get it somewhere else. Stop being a pussy.


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