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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 1:37 am 
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Here's what happened. Basically girl crossed my no bullshit boundary. Without getting into details there was really no need for what happened. Then she started texting me some bullshit I told her I don't wanna hear it and cut her off its been a week now she's texting me how should I play it I haven't answered her I was thinking about saying fck it because I have other girls, but I kinda thought I could give it one more try I showed her I won't put up with stupid non sense. Any views,advice opinions would be appreciated thanks!


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 5:26 am 
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You're super vague about the situation. To summarize, a girl did what she shouldn't have, you've cut contact for a week, now she's texting, you don't know what to do.

That flows into 2.
There isn't much to tell what you should do, since people don't know how you are, what happened, the circumstance, how she is, and what's between you two.

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Are you really going to let random people online decide your moral principles?
And by the way not talking to her for a week and then talking to her again is not showing her that you won't deal with stupid non-sense. It's kind of like a child promising his mom he will never talk to her again when she punishes him, but then talks to her when he needs something. If you don't want to deal with her bullshit, then don't talk to her. If you're going to tell her it's through and then let her into your world again, well, that's just a sign of weak character.

Then again as I said, I don't know the situation so do whatever your big juicy heart desires.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 10:38 am 
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1.
You're super vague about the situation. To summarize, a girl did what she shouldn't have, you've cut contact for a week, now she's texting, you don't know what to do.

That flows into 2.
There isn't much to tell what you should do, since people don't know how you are, what happened, the circumstance, how she is, and what's between you two.

3.
Are you really going to let random people online decide your moral principles?
And by the way not talking to her for a week and then talking to her again is not showing her that you won't deal with stupid non-sense. It's kind of like a child promising his mom he will never talk to her again when she punishes him, but then talks to her when he needs something. If you don't want to deal with her bullshit, then don't talk to her. If you're going to tell her it's through and then let her into your world again, well, that's just a sign of weak character.

Then again as I said, I don't know the situation so do whatever your big juicy heart desires.
Thanks for the input with limited details of the situation. I don't really wanna say what happened. It wasn't serious but I made it clear to her I cannot and will not tolerate drama or bs and she needlessly brought a whole lot of it to me I told her I don't wanna hear it I didn't tell her it was through though. I basically froze out for a week. Now she's texting me again.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 4:28 pm 
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Could be a shit test. Its all on you bro. If you want to hit it, then hit it. If not move on. You've got to decide if its a deal breaker.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 5:12 pm 
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Could be a shit test. Its all on you bro. If you want to hit it, then hit it. If not move on. You've got to decide if its a deal breaker.
You're right mate. She texted me last night asked me how my night was going but I couldn't reply I was chillin in my mate's hot tub with 3 other girls lol. I'll text her in a bit see what's up.


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