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I disagree with everyone here.
Women enjoy men being attracted to them, yes. They like the attention and knowledge that they are appealing to someone. All people are that way- after all, we all have egos. Do they enjoy rejecting men? Not any more than men enjoy rejecting women. I'll reject a girl I don't like- I get enjoyment out of the fact that she likes me, but there isn't much going into the actual rejection.
With that said, I don't doubt there are women who enjoy rejecting men. Just as I don't doubt there are men who enjoy rejecting women, as well as people who enjoy hurting themselves, people who enjoy having sex with animals, and those who enjoy listening to Rush Limbaugh.
Do women in general enjoy rejecting men? No.
What alot of guys DON'T realize is girls actually WANT to meet a guy.
I have alot of female friends who know I coach pick up/self development/social dynamics/seduction (whatever the fuck you want to call it.) and they talk about how fucking awesome it is that there is something out there like that for guys. They talk about how many guys actually NEED help interacting with women because they don't understand them and how to interact effectively.
They talk about how much they want to meet a cool guy who can really rock their world. Most girls you will approach will think to themselves (granted, they don't have a boyfriend... some of them actually do.) "Holy shit! Maybe this is the guy!!" and if you can convey to them that you are that guy (or one of those guys who is good with women) they won't actually reject you. They might not exactly sleep with you... But they will want to be friends with you. Then you have a social circle that contains women. You get better at interacting with women because you are now hanging out with more girls vs. sitting on your buddies couch watching Sports Center reruns, drinking beer, and checking Facebook on your phone. As long as you are a cool guy who is grounded and is the center of his own reality, girls will, in one way or another, get sucked into your reality and want to be a part of your life.