When do you know the girl is the "one"?



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PostPosted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 6:17 am 
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is it different for everyone? The time to settle down I mean. When do you know that this is the girl you want to spend more time with?

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 6:58 am 
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why does there have to be "the one?" marriage is not a concept you came up with... why do it if you really don't want to?


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 2:00 pm 
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When do you know that this is the girl you want to spend more time with?
When I meet an attractive, high self-esteem, high sex drive, "good girl" who's happy with me being non-monogamous. Oh wait, I DID meet that girl. We've been dating for about 3 years now and I couldn't be happier.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 2:35 pm 
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When you meet her, you'll just know.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 5:05 am 
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I am not talking about marriage. I am talking about a girl who stays on your mind even though you still sleep with other girls. The girl you mesh with pretty well.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 11:45 am 
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Let the time settle in. If you are still thinking about her a few months later and you've met a lot of other girls, but they still do not compare, and she is still into you, and you guys have natural chemistry and you both add to each others' lives, then you can assume that this girl might be someone you would want to stay with for longer.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 4:33 pm 
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I don't think there really is "the one". There is the best prospect for a LTR. Oneitis can mess you all up. I know. I try not to be blinded by "the one" because there may be a better one just around the corner.


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