Hey all!

So there is this girl I really like. I asked her out quite a while ago and she said no. 5 months later and she asked me out and we have been hanging out/banging for a couple weeks now. A few nights ago she went pretty much AWOL. She texted me dirty things, I replied, then took 9 hours to get back. Instead of a reply though it was a "Sorry I have to cancel our plans tonight "

I left it at that and then she texted me again "My hair smells like milkshakes!!" which I ignored till the next day. I replied the next day with "Milkshakes? How did you achieve that?" and then 9 HOURS later again she says "I got mah hair did"

Anyways so I sent her a "LOL HB. You're great but I'm not interested in all the games you are swinging " An hour later she tries to call and then texts "What?!".

So basically how do I handle this? I don't want this to be a big serious thing and rather hopefully make it kind of fun.

just sent her a "hey player all tied up I will give you a call in a bit."
her "what are you talking about?! I'm not playing any games or a player "

This is why text game fucking sux. She's way into you dude and you just accused her of playing games because she took a while to respond to a couple of texts and bailed on one date after you've already fucked her! Poor girl lol...

At this stage text should ONLY be to organize your next meeting. If you want to flirt, call her.

Just text her back saying "dw shit joke text sux. Come to mine tonight, lets chill and watch a movie. "

You are being a prick dude, honesty. I know you are just using "game" in your mind but you are being mean, she thinks you are angry with her an doesn't know why. She wants you, if you want her reward her interest with interest. You have her man, you don't need to "game" her.

Hey man thanks for your reply. So i talked to her a bit. I kept it nice and humorous. She said "you're the one who didn't text" (I did text) and then she mumbled something about having to order and if she could call me back later. IF she does call back is there a way I can recover? Do you think an apology would make me seem crazy or too AFC? Thanks man I'm new to all of this.

Also she knows I just got out of a long relationship with a crazy girl who called me every second and worshipped the ground I walked on. Could I maybe use this and say "Sorry, just adjusting from Katey haha".

And she did bail on the previous date before this. I called her after she finally texted me @midnight saying sorry I couldn't make it. I "called Oprah on her" and then ended up at her place that night. Makes me wonder if she is just playing games or is actually interested.

No don't apologize, mistakes were made, it happens.

She said she'd call you back. If she calls you back, get her over to yours and have sex with her so she feels connected again.

If she doesn't, forget about her.

Do NOT initiate again, she said she'd call. If she doesn't she's dishonest and doesn't do what she says she will. Take it from someone who has learned the hard way, this is NOT a trait you want in a girl. In fact, I have clear boundaries, if a girl says she's going to do something then doesn't, without a good reason, I insta dump. Dishonesty is one of the worst traits anyone can have. You want to screen for it vigorously in men AND women.