I been gaming and studying seduction for 4 years now since I was 25.. I just turned 29 now..
Not trying to make this a self pity thread but I'm tired of gaming..
And since I have very high standards I'm still very picky as to who I approach..
And this whole 3 lays per week thing with a different girl just ain't happening for me as promised on the DVD's.

Reason being is because of energy fluctuation where I can be totally depressed for 2 weeks and won't anything but flakes.. which made me question if this is really worth it???
Isn't the point of this to find a girl who you can settle down with and have a relationship? To build a life with someone who you love? Instead of having girls telling you to fuck off, wouldn't you rather have a woman tell you that she loves you?

I don't know.. when is a good time to get into a long term relationship and settle down with a girl?
By the way I'm 29 and never had a serious relationship.. kinda like Matthew Mcconaughey in "Failure to Launch"

Lest I interrupt your pity party there is a large gap between a PUA fucking 3 new girls a week and you beating off at home with a self styled pity party. Why dont you just make an effort to approach a few girls everyday, use online dating, and go out two nights a week working on night game. Besides this keep a journal. Your frustration is probably due to lack of any real effort. I'm guessing you have invested very little real effort to get out of your comfort zone

Boom.

Approach all girls. You have to learn how to relate to women.

And quit being so fucking whiny and feeling bad for yourself. What kind of woman would want to be a part of your life if all you do is "sit around depressed for 2 weeks" because you can't get laid? You are looking for women as a source of happiness. Be happy with yourself first. Then women will be happy to be with you.

I don't like your strategy leads to burning yourself out, use my strategy here:

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I don't like your strategy leads to burning yourself out, use my strategy here:

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I do approach a few girls everydat... and I do do nightgame a few times a week.

Lack of any real effort? getting out of your comfort zone?
Dude didn't I just say I been doing this for 4 years? Which part of 4 years didn't you understand?

Thoughts > Words > Actions > Habits > Character > Destiny


Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.


I know guys that have gotten into seduction for 1 year who ended up with a couple girlfriends an a good load of sweet lays, but they were out there working hard for it. How much time are you really investing being out there on the scene meeting women? Reading, and buying those silly DVD's aren't going to generate much for you. Its cool and it sounds good, but 85% of those things were created to make money off of the down in the dumps depressed guys.

If you really want some help.. Send me a PM and I'll try and go over a few important things with you.

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I know a guy whos been "doing this" for 6 years and he still sucks.... because he doesn't approach often enough. He too claims that he is "picky" and you know what that does to his head? If gives him excuses as to why he shouldn't talk to a girl. Because "she's not good enough for him." If you want to get good, you have to approach... alot. Even if they aren't necessarily girls you are particularly attracted to.. Talk to them. You don't just go from being a nobody to banging models... You've gotta work your way up to that point. Why do you act like you deserve to have such high standards?

ı want to approach girl but they reject me because ım not attractive ı just become attractive winter season and they attracted me because ı dress well but other times Game is not work for me

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You are so Damn sexy, (Pause) and I am going to get to know you (Pause) so tell me something about yourself (smile)

How come girls are telling you to fuck off? You cannot introduce yourself in a normal manner even after four years of training? You are clearly doing something very, very wrong.

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Every girl I ever dated ranged between a 9 and a 10.. nothing ever bellow an 9.. and to be honest anything bellow an 8 is not worth it.. whats the point? If she aint gonna make you go.. "OH MY GOD WHAT IS THIS CHICK DOING TO ME!".. Then why even bang her?

Why get rejected by a 4? The hot one's are actually less bitchy then the not so hot one's...

Plus the not hot one's don't deserve the attention.. nor the flattery.. that's just the way it is

If you set your standards and most of these girls dont meet your standards then why are you even complaining? few years and dated some 9-10's thats good, lets put you into account. what do you have going on in your life that want to make these 9-10 say with you?. Let say you are a HB 9-10. what would you say about yourself that makes you want to stay with yourself? 4 years or how ever many years isnt going to determine if it works or not. Everyday things are changing, same thing with gaming girls, sticking to one thing all the time isnt going to work. Hence why they tell you to "re-calibrate" yourself. seems to me you still got this ego trip in your head thats makes you think "i'm to good for her" which is holding your back alo. Yes everyone knows, that they want the best, but you have to be flexible. This is where i see your problem lies at.

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Actually dude, I live in a city with the majority of certain type of girls that I'm not attracted to *cough* Arabs, French *cough*
That automatically takes out more then 60% of the girls I can approach. It's just on an energetic level we're not compatible, and I also find them to be hideously disgusting, not just in looks but both in a combination of personality and looks.
I tried settling down for lower before and I always felt like crap whenever I lowered my standards, kinda like a hooker.

Here's an idea..... move to a different city!

Just a thought.. Just throwing it out there... If you don't like it, go ahead and throw it right back...

This thread is clearly a waste of time, too many senior experienced guys are wasting their time trying to help someone who would rather stay petulant and obstinate rather than address any real issue