Why does comfort need to be built before seducing a girl?

Because she will have her guard up. She's used to guys trying to seduce her before getting to know her all the time.

I often attract a girl, and then seduce her, and I often fail. I don't understand why comfort is required between attraction and seduction, that's why I always skip comfort building.

If drugs or alcohol aren't involved, it takes an average of seven hours of comfort (phone conversations count) to have a girl feel safe enough around you to sleep with you. If you seduce her too early, then she will feel that you are there just for sex, then leave her. Even if she does want just a f-buddy, she needs to know that you are not crazy, discreet, etc

Fuck all that 7 hour nonsense. That's a theory that has been proven wrong time and time again. Yes, I'm familiar with the term "fools mate" but you've got to realize that girls are horny too. They will fuck you sooner than that. Comfort has to come before sex though because of the fact that she has to be comfortable with you touching her outside before she will let you touch her inside. Comfort is built the most through kino escalation. Push a little bit further for escalating kino and CALIBRATE your next move by her response.

comfort builds trust. without trust there is nothing and she will never open up.
but if it works for you without it, then she probably trusts you enough.

here is a scenario, a girl you don't know walks up to you out of the blue, she is about a 6/10 aesthetically

she is wearing some beat clothes, and just says, ''hi, I was wondering if you would like to have sex with me and be my boyfriend''

now, do you say yes?
how many guys out of 10 would say yes?

Now why would you say no if you said no? Is it possible that you maybe aren't comfortable with having a relationship and sleeping with a girl that you know nothing about?

do you think with the chance of getting pregnant on the table, maybe women might have a different set of results if 1 guy asked 10 girls the same question?

as a rule comfort and rapport are is much more important with a 9 than with a 7. Use that knowledge accordingly

Because sex without it is rape/prostitution

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There are two ways to build comfort, and doing them at the same time means you will be successful.

1. Actually get to know the girl- ask her questions about her life, her passions, her past, and future. I mean deep conversation, ask why a lot, and truly get to know her.

2. Touch her- this can be as simple as shaking hands in the beginning, but guys who touch the girl in a playful manner builds comfort- it is a slight invasion of her territory, and when she allows it, she is complying with your advances. Start with small touches, small pats, and then work your way up to the more intimate type.

My favorite technique is something I call the "questioning touch" which really combines these two comfort building aspects. When I ask the girl a serious question about herself, while sitting next to her, I slowly extend my palm, facing up, and gently brush her arm or shoulder. Throw this into your routine, and I bet it will help.

you are confusing comfort with consent

I forgot people get defensive when they see the word rape. I put prostitution as well for general whorish behavior. My point is Sex without comfort is just with a stranger.

Besides, thats a risky moral line you cross by saying comfort and consent are different.


EDIT: and for those in that moral grey area of PU, the question is should a girl be comfortable with you before having sex with her, or are you ok with whatever falls in your lap. You can have consent without comfort but its just sex with a stranger.

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Ha the 7 hour rule... what a joke. I just fuck em right then and there

Look. If all you want to do is get into her fucking knickers then go visit a prostitute instead. Is that all you guys ever think about? Don't you want to get to know the person or is your dick getting some action all you can think of? I mean why even bother talking to her right? Jesus wept. You haven't got a bloody clue what to do around girls. It's no wonder they are wary of blokes, suspicious and pissed off most of the time. You all sound like a bunch of apes with no clue and believe me they know all your gaming crap.

Digital_Spy it's about time you left the website, every post you have is a troll, I'm surprised you survived this long.