Personally, I think it does. But then you get over it. What would really bother me is if the girl let any guy just hit it. Like a dude with little to no game. Makes you wonder.

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Doesn't really bother me, depends on the circumstance.

If she's in the party phase where she's having fun, experimenting and exploring, I'm probably not going to get serious. If however, she once did that but now has matured and is ready to settle, then I would have no problem dating her at all.

First off I love this topic and I love all you!

Now on topic i'm feeling a little bit of everyone's point opinions so far, but yes I will admit that I do get kinda bothered with the idea of a girl i'm interested in having a lot of previous sexual partners. But to be fair I don't even think about that sorta thing when i'm dealing with a chick however they always are the ones to bring it up which is what gets me most cause i (and a lot of guys i'm sure) don't wanna hear how the girl they are trying to get has been fucked this way and that way by a lot of different guys. even if you are "the guys shes with now" that's still gotta bother you some, and like traveler said it makes me respect her way less.

I even had chick friend of mine tell me she cheated multiple times (one time even being anal) on a guy she was suppose to be "serious" with. Like how do you explain that? you can always say "well shes just a sexually open girl that has an appetite for sex which is totally fine". No that's not fine and I know ill get some typical pua type response like "well maybe its cause he doesn't know how to keep her interested doesn't have game" or something like that but honestly if that's the case id rather be broken up with than cheated on. Women like that are pretty ( for a lack of a better term) "ratchet".

I know many of you guys (like me) try to be tolerant of sexually promiscuous women but I don't feel you can call "slut shaming" on everything cause in my opinion women can still do plenty that would qualify them as a slut.

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yeah i agree, to me its not the quantity of how many guys they been with that makes them a slut but the action they took. cheating a big one for me, if you are in a relationship and cheat on your b/f .... you get the point.

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Cheating is different than sleeping with people when you are single. I think the bigger issue that usually happens is that men judge sexual promiscuity the wrong way (i.e. based on what the girl did with them vs how she is 'normally' or based on "numbers") Numbers is a better test than whether or not a woman was slutty with you, but it is still not that great a measure of if she will cheat/how easy she is etc. Girls who date a lot and are single for a long time will sleep with a larger number of guys than a girl who has been in a relationship most of her life and that has little to do with their sluttiness. also, as I mentioned before, hotter girls sleep with more guys because they get WAAAY more guys hitting on them, including high value men. A hot chick who slept with 20 guys in a few years is way less slutty than an ugly girl who slept with 10 guys due to the simple math of it.

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So how do you explain a girl who sleeps with half a basketball team? You can't tell me that won't influence your judgement on her a little bit. I am all for being nonjudgmental but we are humans after all. We can admit that much.

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There ARE good ways to screen girls (that aren't directly correlated to number of partners). One of these screening techniques is to look for validation seeking behavior (i.e. freaks). 9 times out of 10, a girl who does half a basketball team is going to be a freak. That SHOULD influence your judgement.

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And how exactly are we suppose to screen a "freak" haven't you ever heard "a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" its not always that easy. Also again I do try my best to be nonjudgmental but really? a basketball team? I have no problem with a freaky girl but that's just a cum dumpster.

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I actually wrote a guide about this. Click the link at the bottom of my post (the one about screening). Learning how to screen girls effectively is one of the most important skills I've learned from the pick-up community.
-Wolf

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Your awesome wolf thanks bro!

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Well it stills goes to the fact that lets put this in for example. If a guy fucks half the cheerleading squad, what is he? its the same as a girl fucking 1/2 the basketball team. why is it that the guy gets lables a "pimp" or "stud" while the girl gets lables a "whore" or "slut"? so You are saying you don't want to be judgemental about it but in the other case its ok?.. I find that wrong to place judgmental facts on any gender. If you are doing the same thing and then place judgmental factor on the opposite gender for doing the same thing. you should re-evaluate yourself. I know that some people want a girl thats " has not slept with many guys" soo you are telling me "I want to sleep with all these women, but i want my girl to not sleep with many guys" if this is your thought process, then you are contradicting yourself my friend.

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If that was directed at me im definitely not doing the whole double standard bit..i totally agree men can do some grimey shit too..personally im not in the game to fuck 100 women, im looking for a relationship and the ability to maintain that relationship. So from my perspective im not being a hypocrite.

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I recently broke up with a girl that has had over 100 and she just turned 20. She was kind of a nightmare to date too. She kept in contact with like 4 of her exes and now after we broke up she just switches back and forth between them. So yeah, I probably won't date a girl with THAT many again.