hey,
i am not too much of an AFC but im not a MPUA either. To the point, there is this girl in my class from DR so that makes her dominican. I have 4 problems with her: One, I have good game when i speak in english, however, she feels comfortable speakin in spanish unless we txt and speakin spanish messes me up BADLY!! The reason i speak spanish on her turf is b/c sometimes i feel like there are a few things she might not get and thats understandable. the second issue is that she is VERY family oriented!! omg!! every weekend she goes out with her family, more or less and in the week she stays home and cooks and looks after her sibilins and i nvr have the chance to go out with her and comfort build the way i would like. So i am forced to kino, and do the average 7-9 hours of comfort building, while we are in a 3 hour class, 4 times a week. sometimes she might meet a friend but it seems to be rare. The third issue, it was yesterday wen she told me that she doesnt know me well enough and its been 2 months!! idk wat im doin wrong. in all honesty, i think im gaming a gamer and i dont know if i can pull this off anymore and i wanna give up sometimes since i only have until mid august to get her (the end of the program)...i know im comfort buildin and my kino barely needs improvement but idk guys...i need help...the last issue is that there is this guy she likes from DR and she doesnt even know him very well but they talk on fb and they like each other. they havent seen each other since middle school and she doesnt even remember him and yet he was able to do wat i cannot do in person. they are thousands of miles apart and she feels sad since it might never come to be so now is my chance but idk what to do!! ishe said they clicked but idk how to click with her so im tryin to learn bout her music. please help with ANYTHIN U CAN but no insults, i am still a chump

honestly bro, who cares? she's replaceable. this girl isn't into you... so go get another one.

but thats the thing tho...im not askin for u to tell me what i cant do, im askin for what i CAN do. this is fun and i think i can pull it off if im pulled in the rite direction.

Think of this like a UFC fight. You're new to MMA and your first fight is with Anderson Silva which goes live within the next 18 days.

Can it be done? Sure. But you'll probably end up in the hospital after the first 10 seconds or so. The odds are currently not in your favor although there's a very slim chance you'll get in a lucky punch that KOs Silva.

If you want to f-close one girl, you'll have to practice on hundreds of other girls. You can't be that smooth within the next 18 days without learning and sharpening your skills. So what can you do in 18 days?

Practice on other girls and hope for the best.

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thanks hellhound...u are rite but this is actually one of those rare girls i dont wanna f-close...sadly, i actually like her and i know that i will need time to get her. more than just 18 or so days. all i want is to implant a "seed", u understand? like the idea that now she might just have feelings for 2 guys now. once i get that then i can take it easier. i really do like ur example however and u are rite but i dont want anything but that "idea" to be implanted. any other ideas tho?

Have you asked her out? Perhaps to get coffee?
Have you asked her to meet for anything school related?

There's not enough info to tell you specifically what to do, but if you have a level of sexual tension going and she's not feeding on it, you've either already screwed up or you need to change something.

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yea i asked her out to go out places to comfort build, but she is either too busy with family or chores....i dont believe i screwed up. i think one of the main things is that i might need to change somethin and that she like someone FAR away...as mentioned. if u wanna ask me somethin to better assess the situation then ask away

True indeed - although you've already signed up for the fight because you want the girl as bad as you do. So what is your only option? Go out swinging and give it everything you got. So here is your option.. Now not only is this high risk and likely not to work( Just like throwing haymakers at silva) but, you do not have the skills yet to strategically get the girl(nor beat silva). But you're already signed up! So go out swinging..


Just ask her on the last day " So its the last day, we should just have sex to celebrate. (smile and say) Walk with me.." and begin walking toward wherever you would have sex with her. Don't look back, just keep walking, slowly and calmly, waiting for her to catch up.

Now will this work for "you"? Probably not... but like the analogy that has already been given, going out swinging is all you've got.

The good news is.. being this bold will score you some confidence points and allow you to see rejection and women in a whole new light.

So what do you think?

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dude thats some shit...i like how u said go out swingin and i was planning on doin something close but i dont want to fuck her...i really like the girl and i wanna work it out with her. as i said, i want to implant the "idea" that she might just be liking 2 guys an d not just the one from DR.

If this is true, this is a lost case my friend. Forget about it.

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if i had more time...hypothetical ofcourse, what could i do then under these circumstances?

This.

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what the shit?? are u kiddin me? im not gonna fall over and die with this. i KNOW i can take it somewhere cuz i played it well with her.

then do it up, get her alone and sleep with her

if you want to learn how to get ''thee'' girl, first come up with a plan of attack and implement and test that plan of attack on many girls until you actually get good at using your plan of attack,

you are not someone else and implementing their plan of attack when you are not them and don't have the same reasoning and experience as them while utilizing their plan of attack, will set you up to fail

there is no secret thing to say or trick, you just have to develop some confidence and a routinely used strategy that you are comfortable with, that allows you to meet women and seduce them, without the practice and understanding of what goal you are trying to accomplish, you will rarely reach a favorable outcome

it's comparable to you never riding a bike and saying, hey I want to win the X-games free style bmx this year, but I've never rode a bike before, how can I pull that off? I got two weeks by the way

just come up with a plan of attack and execute the plan, see what happens, if it doesn't go as desired, continue to test and revise the plan of attack, but most importantly keep gaining experience and know how

ok cool...i like that too. idk y ppl think i want sex but i give up sayin otherwise however, u are rite. hut is there anyway i can use the "game" to create a "connection" with her that im lackin? i think that is somethin else i would like to understand