After me paying the first couple of dates some girls insist and pay on the third date and money is equally spent then on.

There are some girls who have not spent a dime even on the 6th or 7th date. How do I get them to pay?


Analogously when it comes to planning dates, the first couple of dates are planned by me and after that some girls like to plan the next date and indicate a clear desire of what they want to do.

However there are some girls that do not plan or input what they want to do even on the 6th or 7th date. How do I make them plan the date?

This is not me being cheap. I think making them spend money and plan dates increases their investment level.