so this girl..everything was great and we went out a couple of dates, then suddenly dissappeared after the last date.
she didn't respond to my last text that night to see if she got home ok. a week passed and i got frustrated that she was ignoring me without telling me what was up. Called her a couple of times that week and no response.

days passed and I just wanted closure so I could move on to another girl so I tried calling her again and because I knew she was ignoring me I just sent her a text saying: "I won't be bothering you anymore then". To my surprise, she immediately responded asking "what's happening with you?" (like in a I had done something wrong way). We kept texting but then after that conversation, she went back to ignoring me....

Im in a state where it doesn't matter if I lose her, I just want to know if we are going to have sex or go out again because I have no interest in being her friend. I know there is some kind of attraction but idk if its too late.

My question is what should I text her so that I get her interest again and she texts me back. Like I said, I want to set up a date or sex, anything except being on the sideline as a "friend". What should I text her? (last text was about a week ago)

What I know about her
-she is very jealous
-she is not seeing any other guy
-she is kinda immature (from what I observed) she's 20 btw and Im 22

If u like this girl, then pursue her. If she is jealous and has a bunch of qualities that u dislike then u might want to move on to the next. The worst thing is setting for a woman that u see no future with. Dating is one thing but long term dating is something else. There are plenty of women in the world, and if u play it right hopefully u will meet one that u really like, with all of the qualities that u want. My advice- don't settle.

You have a perspective problem: Yet you say: Her behavior is not at all congruent with your perspective, so let me correct that perspective for you: you are attracted to her, but she is not attracted to you. You can't lose her, you don't have her. There is no text you can send to make her interested again, because she has met you and concluded that she's not interested in you. The short and long of it is that you've been rejected. Tough luck, learn from it and move on.

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Timo nailed it!

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One thing I learned from following Styles work is losing her sexually is never a bad thing. What you have gained is a possible "pivot" in the field, if she is to approach you or you see her out in a club/lounge that would only raise your social value to the rest of the room. On the large scale of things it may be a loss, she clearly lost interest for now, but its not entirely a negative.You learned and now may see her again while DHVing other groups in the field, this could change things.
Cheers