Hello,

Here is something I have realized recently: to be good at pick up, you need to have a lot of negative qualities. You need to be a narcissist, you need to be in love with yourself
you need to be a douchebag, you need to believe everything you say is funny (even though it's not) and you are the coolest dude on the earth (even though you are not)
I had a few more negative qualities to list, but forgot them.

well, am I right or wrong?

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no

just need to meet women and sleep with them

No just be playful, honest and genuine with your intentions. Noobs like the idea that treating women like shit gets them laid because it's easy to remember and it seems like a good way for them to take out their vengeful frustrations on women because they have been screwed over or heart-broken in the past.

You will never get high quality women by being an asshole. It will only score you short term lays with low self esteem girls.

LMFAO at Pump!

Many guys mistakenly believe that the only way to attract women is to be a "douche-bag."

As Hunter says
this is simply “lazy” thinking. As I know men who have none of this, yet still have know idea exactly how to attract and keep beautiful women.

You know how girls always fucking complain about how they want to meet a nice guy instead of the typical Asshole? Well you know why that shit happens? Because girls seem to fucking love Assholes!
Trouble is Assholes seem to have trouble sticking around.
Prison, sudden death, someone else’s Baby’s Daddy, things like that.

And girls KNOW this.

But why are they ATTRACTED to the Assholes and douche-bags of the world?

Because they are not needy, they don’t require validation from anyone, they are always self-serving, they are CONFIDANT, and they are independent. They believe in themselves wrong or right.

You don't need to douche-it-up!

You need to start off from the mental place that you are an amazing guy, and that you don’t need a partner (or anyone else for that matter) to validate you, THEN you are on the right track.

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Above posters are totally right. You will really not be able to keep high quality women who have self respect and know what they want by being a douche-bag. I'm learning this the hard way man. Some girls really fucking like it if you're just a cool, nice dude who won't take shit, won't seek validation, does what he wants, this ATTRACTS women and can KEEP them around.

Think about it like this - you are a confident, cool, non-validation seeking, independent, ambitious, cocky funny (the right amount thereof) and KIND person who gives women ENJOYABLE times every time they are with you so they become addicted to you, you are their escapism from the real world - girls will want more of you all the time. They cannot lose attraction because you have attractive qualities, and they cannot let go of you because you've given them no reason to (haven't ever mistreated her, been an idiot, been mad, been REACTIVE, none of that) so she thinks wtf, this guy is cool, confident, won't take shit, but doesn't really get mad either, he's just giving me positive emotions and when I do something he doesn't like he simply removes the positivity to neutral - I want more of that positivity so I will do what he wants!

Whereas if you're the douchebag you still have the attractive qualities but you can't keep her around because you're messing with her emotions, making her feel good, feel bad, feel good, feel bad - some chicks like that, but are these the girls you really want to keep in the future? Do you really want a shitload of drama all the time by being a douche and getting a girl who likes the drama (who probably has self-esteem issues), or do you want to be the coolest, most confident, sexiest, most positive motherfucker in town who gets respectable girls who have class and have self-esteem? Think about it.

Whats so negative about being in love with yourself? I always tell girls " Sure I'm in love with myself, but once I find someone I dig like I dig you, I begin sharing that love with them " - something like that, but its works like a lucky charm.

Anyways dude... If you think you're the coolest guy in the world, who am I or anyone else to tell you that you're not? Is there a score or tally for who is actually the coolest?

If I think I'm funny dude, I think I'm funny.. And no one is going to tell me I'm not.. I make myself laugh, my friends and my girls.. Thats good enough for me.

To be good at this.. you simply have to believe in yourself. A man is what he thinks he is.

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