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@TonyKing: Thank you, I will certainly keep that in mind.
@bamthebomb: I know, and my sticky point is so far, to get out of the house. The lack of social life isn't there concerning meeting friends. But they are so sarger, none of them is currently interested in getting women. The lack in my social life are women. Female friends etc. EVERY type of female. That's why I am here and in other forums. I just need someone who goes sarging with me. Alone it is kinda ... awkward I think.
But to this problem I will open another thread, or search for threads with this kind of topic.^^
Okay bro, I'm gonna dissect the fuck out of this for you...
You've been getting alot of IOIs via text? Cool. Who gives a shit? Girls text and flirt with guys via text all the fucking time. It's harmless. They can just ignore you if you creep them out. (say for example, your case.) Now, you are showing through your true colors later in the game, that you are sexually needy, because you have no women in your social circle. You are not used to interacting with girls. Ever hear the saying "You are a product of your environment?" Well, you've got a bunch of lame ass friends who don't get out of the house and DO shit.
Did you know that most "pick up" techniques also work on guys? Did you know that you can build a better social circle for yourself, full of friends that have meaning and value, and ultimately allow yourself to live a better life? Talk to guys when you go out man. There are alot of guys out at bars and clubs, celebrating their hard work for the week. Especially in major cities. I've meet some cool fucking people because of pick up. I've partied, hung out with, and developed relationships with big name musicians, actors, professional athletes. I've made solid relationships with people from all walks of life.
A thing about male psychology for you... As men, as people in general really, we tend to fall into the role that people of society treat us as. So, say you act as and do things that a super high value guy would do... people will start to treat you this way. You will like the way that you are treated. You will do more things that a high value guy would do, and ultimately become a high value guy that girls would want to become a part of your life. You HAVE TO live a cool interesting lifestyle that has VALUE in order for a girl to sleep with you.
So, use pick up to talk to guys bro. Get in with these guys. Build a social circle for yourself filled with guys who pull these girls all the time. You will be able to accomplish alot more in life and create a life of value, like the ones your new friends will have and be able to get girls with value, like those guys have. I have girls buying me dinners, groceries, paying my bills with out me even asking them to, I had a girl buy me a playstation 3 last year because she "thought of me" at the store, driving me all over the place, cleaning up after me, doing my laundry... They all try to earn my affection, in sometimes crazy ways, because I don't need it. They need it. They want to get fucked by me so bad that they do all that shit for me. I am the one with value to them. They want my semen to reproduce offspring that will have the same "survival value" as me.
That is how you can develop "natural game." So, you develop this solid social circle, filled with other guys who have women around and say you meet one, alright? Say you're sleeping with just one smoking hot, high value girl a week, right... Alot of girls, as long as you do it right, will want to spend more time with you and get fucked by you more often. These are called "sexual relationships." Do you really think you would give a flying fuck about whether or not, say her name is Jessica at some bar, thinks about you or does for me? Hell no. Do you think you would really give a shit about whether or not she sleeps with you? Hell no. Because now, at this point you've got 3 other hot girls who drain your nut sack any time you want and twice on the weekend, and you can call any of them and have them come suck your dick til you fall asleep whether or not Jessica rejects you. Feel me?
This is known as "abundance." You see, an abundance of pretty much anything in life, is attractive. If you have an abundance of value in life, you become more attractive. If you are at a friends house and it has pool tables and swimming pools and hot tubs, pinball machines and old school video game systems in brand new condition. ATVs in the garage and 3 Ferraris that you could take for a cruise later vs a friends house that has ESPN and a couch with maybe some music playing in the background... Where are YOU going to spend more time at? I would guess the first friends house. You see, that friend has ABUNDANCE. It is more attractive. Make friends with these type of people who have value and cool lives. You will get these girls
Look at the situation from a girls angle... why would she want to be a part of your life? If you want a certain quality girl, live the quality of life that a guy who they would find extremely attractive, and you will get those girls. Again, you are a product of your environment. Get in with the high value guys, become one, get high value girls.
And here's the cool thing... if you DON'T FUCKING STOP GOING OUT... It becomes this vicious upward spiral of increasing your value. You become a better, high value man, keep seeking more out of your life, and you will get the better, high value women. Take ridiculous self responsibility for situations and act on improving yourself and your own life and you will gradually get better and better women easier.
CHAT
Since I did some successful sexual escalation in the past via text, I thought she would get this also the sexual way. But she didn't get it at all. She thought I would be ill too and I answered, that she has something misunderstood. Since then no reply followed, but Facebook said, that she would have seen the message.
