Hey guys, I need some advice. Sorry in advance for the long story.

So I met this girl this past weekend in a club while on vacation celebrating a friends birthday. After chatting with her for a bit, I ended up KC her. After that we were chatting and making out for the rest of the night. I was not able to bring her home because she was there with a few friends and I was sharing a room with 3 other people.

At the end of the night we exchanged numbers, and she said that she would like me to visit her and I said I would like her to visit me as well.

There are a couple issues at hand though:
1) She lives about 2 hours away. I would visit her but I would rather her visit me.
2) She is a foreign exchange student who is staying with a family in the U.S. This means I wouldn't be able to stay the night and would probably have to rent a hotel if I visited..don't feel like spending money on this. If she visited me I have my own apartment that she could stay at, and hopefully we could do more than just sleep

How should I go about having her visit me?
How long into texting/calling her should I ask her to come visit? 1 week? 2 weeks? etc.

It's a trick situation for me, thanks for the advice in advance.

Because she only has limited time here, work fast lol. you both know you are interested in each other so that makes alot of the bs in game cut out.

Try getting sexual over text and tease her lots, then i would suggest calling her one day maybe 2 or 3 days later and tell her to come over because of something interesting going on. blah blah blah make some bs event up there plenty of example online I would google pua excuses to bring her over to house kind of thing.

Just dont come off as needy and youll be fine!
good luck soldier!

One powerful phone call can get this done.. But just understand that this will be a bit of a challenge because she isn't even from this country. You're asking a foreign to travel two hours in a country she doesn't know much about... Think about it?


If she's not worth the hotel or the traveling time then maybe she isn't worth sleeping with period? Hmm

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I agree it is going to be a challenge. Thanks for the advice so far.

Also I wasn't saying that I wouldn't travel to her. I was just saying that I think we would have more fun and freedom if she came to visit me, since I probably know my area better than she knows hers and I live in my own apartment. And additionally, it would cost her nothing to stay over for the one or two nights, while it would cost me a one or two night stay at a hotel.

Plus, if I went to visit her first, wouldn't that be giving her the power?

Sometimes you gotta accept the logistics are f'd and walk away. Dont spend a dime on a hotel. If she will not come, delete. Text or call for a couple of days and if she isn't willing to come to you, give up and find someone new.

Two hours away is quite a distance for pussy. Most girls I know won't travel that far unless you really got her pussy juices flowing for you. I wouldn't travel 2 hours unless I was guaranteed a lay. Sounds like her living with a family negates the fact you are gonna land this one.

Get another girl...

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Thanks for the advice y'all. Going to see if she'll come to visit me, otherwise on to the next one.

I'll second what most guys are saying. Hit her up and see if she'd come through.

If she says no for some reason, and you both are still down, another option is if you're free to go kick it in that city for your own reasons, then meet up with her and both of you drive back to your crib for a day or two. It sounds a bit weird, esp. since you're going to have to drive her back, but if you got a good homie who's willing to shotgun for you, and you're driving to a good city, might as well see what's up there. Maybe hit up some bars if that's the first thing you're into, meet some other women. Before you do this, pitch her the idea that you will be in her town with her friend, and you guys could meet up. Plot into her head the idea of coming to stay with you for a bit since she can't have the boss over, and roll with that. In a couple days when you're dropping her off you can give her a kiss and watch her leave home, while you take out your phone to meet up with that other girl you met in that city a few nights ago.

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I dont know everyone hates the idea of you going over there. But for me what the hell I love vacations any opportunity i get to go exploring and meeting different women ill take it. depends how you play it.