So just as I start learning the art of pick up my hormones seem to be dying down. It has gotten harder for me to ejaculate. May be I am getting old-- I am 33-- or maybe it is that I have started a new career that I find less stressful and therefor don't need that outlet anymore.

Well, if you are watching to much porn that could be killing your sex drive. I know from experience that if i masturbate more then 1 time every 4 days it could throw me into a depressive state, and or sap my motivation. Porn is the pick up artist enemy!

The stress could be a factor

Motivation, again could be the cause, but not because of blowing a load on your keyboard. I keep a folder on my computer of high resolution images of sexy woman ( not nude..but damn close) on my computer. and i look at them every day to motivate me, and inspire me.

Also, iIve found that I become more inspired and motivated by listening to rock music. I've never realized the power of music to change my mood until just recently.

Ironically, If you are not motivated, maybe you just arent into pick up...or are lazy? Perhaps meeting up with someone in your area and getting a wing man will help motivate you!

Good Luck

Stankwagon

Try not masturbating for a long period of time. Ejaculation should be a reward for picking up a beautiful woman.

Less stress = less sex? No no no, less stress = more sex. It's the porn, give it up. If you do not watch any porn, visit a doctor because something could be wrong. Most likely porn though.

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I think you mean " more stress = more opportunities for women to take their cloths off " If you cant get it up because you are stressed the fuck out, it doesn't matter how much stress you amass from approaching girls, your dick isn't going to work!

Seriously though watching porn is the arch nemesis of getting laid. When I watched porn every day I literally had no desire to get laid except when I was watching porn. Then when I finished it was gone.


Stop watching it.

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I love fapping and watching porn, even in my current relationship. I spent most of my life doing this habit.

I understand that in SOME cases that it could kill motivational, But for me...my motivation comes from meeting an amazing sexy chick(s).

I literally can fap and next minute i can logically decide to go out and have a good sarge. In fact. My routine is to fap before I go out.

I think it all comes down to drive, if you see pickup as a job= bad , and if you see PU as afun hobby= good.

Do you lack motivation playing your fav sport? Football? Hockey? Etc? Surely you some things in life cos you enjoy it?

I also think no fapping rule can back fire. I think it makes you more needy and more dependant on the outcome, girls can smell the desperation and it can repel them.

Just make a rule, go out a least twice a week and be productive with interactions.

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