So I'm a 16 year old who was very interested(starting about a year ago)on women's psychology and seduction techniques, shit of that sorts. Well I was working the other night and there was this cute girl who I started speaking to and built up lots of rapport, got cockblocked by this guy, then she told him she was cold and that we should go walk over away from him, which we did. After about 30 mins of chatting and what not we were saying our byes which ended with a kiss and lots of hugs obviously interested. I work on a farm for all of your guys' information. Now she found out lately I've been rolling in the numbers from girls(only 2 seriously)and was all pissy at work so I let her in on the whole thing via text. Now after promptly telling her this was her reply. Mind blown is all I can say. I am not very experienced with following up and I did reply a little pissed lol don't necessarily care too much about this girl but hey If I can do something I will. I more or so want advice for future reference etc. Will send pics of the texts after that if wanted.

Usually when a girl goes cold at any point in the game, its due to a mistake in a previous stage of the game.

I'm curious, how did she find out you've been pulling in numbers? It's one thing if a girl sees that you get attention from women from them coming up to talk to you, call/text you, etc. In those cases it's a good thing because the fact that everyone else wants you raises your value in her eyes. But it's another thing if she sees you running game or she comes by information from which she can infer you are actively trying to pick up other women while going for her.

Nobody, man or woman, ever wants to get played, and if she thinks you are playing her then she will back out. In fact I bet she added the bit about her being interested in another man to knock you down a little bit and show you that she has options too.

Also, if she was mad about you raking in numbers I would generally recommend talking it out in person instead of over text.

"[blabla] I will not tolerate"

Why would you deal with someone who thinks she's your mother? How did you get to this stage? Are you behaving submissively toward this girl?

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I replied with some response like thanks for leading me on etc. calling her out on it after this. Then she replied saying I am being an asshole lol. I replied with Have a good night, I can sometimes be an asshole. Finally ended with her reply of "Thanks you too. I really did not mean for things to turn out this way...I thought we could at least be friends after i told you how I actually felt." Life's boring without some arguments and challenge. Now what should I do? Got today off work and I find her worth giving a shot.

lol, shoulda acted unaffected, replied with some shit like "alright"

she treats you like shes yur mommy bro. yur supposed to be the alpha.

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What did you let her in on?

Either way, if she says some shit like that, your best bet is to not reply. She's put up her defenses and holding the line mainly out of principle. What you do now is not attack. What was your intent of saying "Thanks for leading me on?" Are you trying to get her to say, "No! I didn't lead you on. I actually cared for you!" If you're trying to satisfy your own ego you won't get very far with anything.

More than half of her text in the picture was completely unnecessary. I call it reaction talk since she is just trying to get your reaction out of saying redundant things. Could you not understand everything that came with, "I'm interested in another guy." It's easy to, and she said everything else just to spice up the drama. If she does that, she is still interested in you- she's putting extra energy into stroking any sorts of emotions you two are still sharing. If she didn't care, she would not reply to you. This is why it's best to not reply in that situation. There is a Russians saying that goes: "The less we love a woman, the more interest she has in us." You ignore her bullshit, she will send a few troops again to see why the hell you're being stagnant.

Either way, I would have ignored her last text and the next time I saw her at work, wouldn't initiate much contact. If she says something, be polite and speak to her as an acquaintance. Don't ask her how she is doing or anything. She says "Hi", you say "hey". She says "how are you", you say "good yourself."

If you want her badly after this, you see how everything goes for about a week and then reinitiate some friendly contact with her. Show her some more interest. You don't gotta show her romantic interest at that point, but building it up from there is possible. Obviously the vase will still be cracked, but you can do a hell of a job of gluing it back together.

With that said, two more things: don't tolerate anyone's condescending shit and don't play women.

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I never admit I have a crush on a girl unless I have done something sexual with them- at the very least kissing her, but usually after bangin her.

As said above, you probably messed up somewhere before this. You are young, you still have a lot to learn.

So a girl says I am guilty of something, what should I reply with? Going to lay it low for about a week or so like said above. Pretty sure I came off as kinda desperate right there(bit of a turn off). But hey live and learn.

Sorry to be the one to tell you this but you were being an asshole and you did act like an AFC.

You tell a girl you have a crush on her, that you could be friends, etc after arguing with her for not liking you?Boo fucking hoo.