Ok here we go
I went out tonight with green_dot from this forum. The club we wanted to go was about a 30-40min walk from the train station and it was 10pm. Half-way through we went drinking a beer, and again half-way of the rest of it we did some pushups at the barracks lol, just so we did something and it was quite refreshing.
We arrived at the club and went in at 11pm, there weren't that many people in there unfortunately, so we decided to go to the bar and take a beer. I managed to get myself into that awesome "I don't care and everything is awesome" state which I hope I'll be able to reproduce. Left to us with one seat in between was a girl on her own who looked a bit boring. I found this to be totally awesome and I knew: Either I'm going to approach her now or I won't be doing anything that night! So half-way through the beer I asked green_dot "Hey, should I approach her?
" and just went over there and approached.
No big deal, I said "Hi, how's it going?", did a little coldreading to find out what she does for a living and just chit-chatted a bit. Nothing too awesome or anything, but I managed to keep the conversation going for almost 10 minutes. She wasn't really receptive and in the mood, so I left her there and finished my beer.
To both the left and right side of the dancefloor were tables to sit at, and there were two threesets, so we decided to split up and take one set each. I went to mine, "Hi, how's it going?" and sat down
which was probably something I shouldn't have done right away.
It was a quite nice threeset, two very attractive black-haired girls and their "fat friend".
Asked them if they were in a party mood and enjoying the night, and did a little coldreading where they knew each other from. Two of them were actually twins, so that made a good topic, I knew a twin and her boyfriend once confused one with the other which made her really upset, and asked how they'd react and if it happened to them before, while starting to focus on the girl I was interested most in.
I asked her "are you a good dancer?" and she said "no, but the other two are", I then asked them and they both said they weren't at all, and I laughed.
I started talking with her about something I don't remember, then we all stood up and I told her "let's go to the dancefloor!", her friend told her to go, but the fattie said "We'll go outside for a moment to take a breath of fresh air" and they went away
I probably should just have taken the girl I wanted at this point... It really makes me think.
My friend went out smoking so I shortly went to his threeset, asked where he was, went away again. I just enjoyed myself for a minute, standing there moving with the music and smiling. We got a shot at the bar, then he went back to his threeset with me joining him shortly after.
He told me that the one on the right probably liked me, I got for the one on the left first, though.
She turned out to be very bitchy, I tried four times to start a conversation but she turned me away. The fourth time I asked her about her watch I just noticed, "Hey, someone wearing a watch! Let me see!", but again, nothing. I then started to talk to the one to my right about her not having a watch, and then about something else I don't remember, but didn't kino even though the situation would have been right for it.
My threeset came back in, and a little after they've seen me with my friend at the threeset, I went over to them and asked my favourite to dance.
I shouldn't have asked her, I should just have told her what I want and take her. They didn't want to. green_dot and I went to the dancefloor anyway as his threeset went dancing as well.
I don't have to state again how much I suck as a dancer, but I didn't care at that moment.
The fattie was at the table, while the other five were enjoying themselves, and five minutes later they were all making out with some black men who just grabbed them on the dancefloor. Ouch. We left the dancefloor since all girls were dancing with men by now anyway, and we're both no big dancefloor fans.
Oh, iirc I approached a girl standing right at the border of the dancefloor, but she didn't really react and didn't look as if she was interested at all so I walked away.
I approached another girl sitting on her own, but she had a boyfriend to whom she "ran" right after I left. We saw her later still sit there alone, her boyfriend being at the smoker's corner.
Since there was nothing left and we didn't want to just sit there (and I didn't want to watch our sets make out with other guys) we left the venue and went to one at the train station, so we had to walk half an hour again.
The music was much much louder there, light effects everywhere, and very few sets, so we would have needed to approach on the dancefloor or pretty physical (or both, lol). I didn't like it.
I've seen a twoset and a oneset just sitting, but didn't approach.
Then there was a fourset, four girls just on their own having their own party... I approached. They couldn't really understand me, I looked at the girl I was interested in, which was in the middle, and I thought it's a good idea to take her out there right away, so I wanted to reach out, but all I heard was a "Keep your fingers off!" and the whole fourset walked away. They didn't want to talk to any men it seems, they rudely rejected everyone approaching them.
A bit after that we left the venue and took our first trains home.
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