So this girl's bday was two weeks ago. I texted her and wishing her a happy birthday. I didn't contacted her ever since. I just got a txt from her this morning and she invited me to her bday celebration tonight. I need your advice if I should reject or accept her invitation.

My instinct was to reject her invitation. I am composing a message to reject her invitation because I am not familiar with going alone to a party with a bunch of girls. I'm afraid I might act stupid and DLV with alcohol in the mix. I'm not much of a drinker Sometimes I feel like, you need to be a drinker to be the man! What do you guys think?

As of right now, I'm ready to click that reject button and offer her an alternative time to hang out.

Tips on composing a rejected txt? Or should I just accept her invitation and wing it!

let me get this straight...you want to reject her invitation because you dont want to "dlv" (embarrass) yourself? Thats down right pathetic, sorry man no other way to put it.

Yup, that's the whole point. I am pathetic. I don't feel like I'm ready to party with a bunch of girls yet.

Backstory: I actually liked her, and she knows it too. If I do accept her invitation:

Do I pay for her drinks and her friends too?

Of course, her friends will be evaluating me.