| Overtime I have run into girls who have been mean to me, I mean really mean. Not mean as in non-receptive but mean as in randomly saying rude things to you, insulting you when they have just met you, or going out of their way to show their friends and social circles just how much they are above you.
Kinda ran into a girl like this a week ago. So I am friends with this one gorgeous brunette (pretty face, nice eyes, beautiful curly hair, etc.) and she introduces me to a friend of hers. I introduce myself and the friend halfway cuts me off and changes the topic, everyone looks at her like she is crazy but she just smiles about it. Now a year ago this kind of thing would have killed my ego but I have learned something about girls like this overtime.
DO keep in mind, even the nicest girl will become rude if you come off as a creep and go out looking like garbage (smelly, poor hygiene, bad clothes, etc.).
Girls that are like that are like that because of one reason.
It isn't meant to sound cliche or anything but these girls have issues. I mean they have serious issues in their lives. Not like they are mentally crazy, but they have issues in that they aren't where they want to be in life. She wants that nice career or nice job but isn't making any progress in it, she wants that nice life but it isn't there, etc.
I noticed that these kinds of attitudes where much higher and prominent in girls who are trying to fit in. Like she is different from all the sorority girls in that her parents are not as rich so she tries harder to fit in, as a result she comes off as more rude and disrespectful because she desperately wants to fit in.
SO this is more of a heads up or notice to the newbies in here because I am sure a lot of you are doing approaches and running into these kinds of girls. _________________ I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.
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