Hey guys!

I'm Tyler. I'm here because I used to be naturally good with women and people in general. I was popular without having to try. I was naturally alpha. Then for two years I was working a job I hate, taking extra hours and studying in night classes.

That whole side of me died. I drifted away from friends as I focused on bettering my future. I am where I need to be now and it's paying off but at a huge cost: I am a boring shell of a person with barely any discernible personality. I'm so beta I'm verging on being gamma.

I'm quitting my job soon and going back to university. I wanna get back to who I was - or at least make a start on 'the road to recovery' - before I start university. I figure the PUA community is the best place to be for that.

If anybody here has ever been in a similar situation: lost their natural game/alpha traits and had to relearn it I'd like to hear from you, how did it turn out? Any advice?

Tyler.
Many people face these problems.
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Hey Tyler!

First of all, welcome to the forum bro!

Secondly, when you work a job you hate - and it's not very challenging - you'll enter a logical mindset rather then an emotional mindset.

Which basically means, when you're trying to socialize with people - not just women - you'll be inside your head analyzing everything...

Why did I say that?
What do they think about me?
What should I say next?

But, when you're out meeting people all the time and have a job that actually challenges you (that forces you to meet new people) - you build Lifestyle Momentum, which naturally makes you more extroverted and so the majority of the time you're in that emotional state.

My best advice would be to get used to going out on a regular basis, meet new people at classes, go out with them - literally force yourself to talk to everyone on a daily basis.

And you'll gradually become that naturally sociable guy again.

By the way, if you've got any questions - just hit me up :=)

Zak