Guys, I am with a girl who said the following to me after I told her I was going to make her cum no matter what next time I go down on her: "Then you will be one PATIENT man!" in an insistent but not frustrated with me in particular tone of voice (Does this mean she has never had a clitoral orgasm?

Keep in mind she is YOUNG and only had one long term boyfriend before me. She also says "that felt really good" after she pulls me up sometimes, thought I might have had sex with 20 women before (aka doesn't think I'm inexperienced in the sex department), initiates sex and LETS me go down on her

She generally pulls my head up when I go down on her after some bucking and moaning. I can't tell if she stops me because she is bored with what I am doing, I am going too hard (direct clit stimulation), or she is frustrated with herself (which she has told me). When I expose her clit and lick it she bucks. But last time I went down on her, i licked her entire vagina the entire time and sucked on it, and she was having little reaction whatsoever

Do you guys expose the actual clit when you give women oral, or just lick the mound over it?

I know the typical tips and follow them: tease her by licking her legs/inner/outer lips first, then make way to clit area and LIGHTLY lick it and gradually get harder licks with the whole tongue, not the tip

I am hesitant (and have never) just exposed her clit and licked it repeatedly. This is because of two things: She convulses when I do by bucking her hips or she just won't stay still, and number two: it is hard for me to even keep it exposed as there is so much flesh above hers and i can't stay on it, even when I pin her down!

Guys! help me here! She has been with me a year and keeps initiating sex, so I must be doing something right! I have asked her if it is too much when I go down on her, and she says no, but then she stops me when I lick her clit by bucking pretty violently!

I have let her sit on my face and literally just kept my tongue in the air to let her grind on it, but she stops HERSELF in this position and says she "needs a break"

What gives? Do I suck at head or has she never cum with a guy? She seems to want the dick and keeps coming back for more, but I know vaginal orgasm's aren't the way to go and odds are no man has given her one anyway with only one long term boyfriend who was YOUNG, so I am trying to play the odds here with the clit!

SHE HAS ALSO STOPPED ME FROM FINGERING HER SAYING SHE NEEDS A BREAK (WITHOUT CLIT STIMULATION!) AS WELL AS DURING SEX! SHE WON"T LET ME KEEP GOING EVEN IF I FORCE HER SHE SAYS NOOOO

Talk to her man. She knows her body better than anyone. First off eating all over the pussy is a waste of time. Focus on the bean. She may be sensitive down there. Start in the outside and work your way into exposing the clit. I have to do this with my girl. If I go straight for the clit she about jumps out of bed. If I slowly work her into it she loves it. Go messing with the rest of her pussy she'll say "what the hell are you doing, that doesn't feel good". Use less pressure to. This will help.

Hey dude,

There is one simple tactic that brings a girl to a clitoral orgasm for me every single time.

If you want to lick around her entire pussy in the beginning thats fine, but when you want her to cum, you are going to focus on one spot; the clitoris! Now if she is extra sensitive in that area you can apply the pressure to just up underneath the clit.

Heres what you do: Pick a tongue stroke; ONE tongue stroke. Whether that be up and down/left to right/ diagonal to diagonal - use that one stroke only and let the pressure build up until she reaches orgasm. When she begins to squirm, pin her legs open and keep building the pressure on that one spot. Eventually she will crack and have an explosive orgasm. I've ran this same approach on so many girls and it works every single time.

You know how if a girl is giving you a blowjob, you get to the point where you are about to come and all of a sudden she starts doing a different stroke that messes up the entire orgasm? The clitoris is the same way, lick it whatever way you want, but when its time to cum, pick one stroke and stick with it until she cracks. It works every time; if she's never had a clitoral orgasm before she just may not know what it feels like. This is why you hold on! When you begins to squirm and pull away it is because the pressure is building and she is about to cum; don't let her push you away. Keep going and I promise you she will cum.

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THANKS joey! I will try this. But from what I said, do you think she has before? I have tried this before but will again, just not stop when she grabs me

Communicate man! I don't know what to think; this is your girl.


But like I said..Let the pressure build up until she cracks, no matter what, don't stop. Sometimes it takes 5 mins, sometimes 10, sometimes 20 but she will crack eventually. And whatever you do; do NOT let her pull you away. Keep going and FOCUS on that ONE stroke and that ONE area.

Whats helped me in the past was a little visualization while I'm licking the clitoris; i'd imagine the clit vibrating with intensity and the girls hollering even if she wasn't initially.

Let me how it goes

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ALSO!

Just in case you don't know this; as the pressure builds and she begins to squirm, being picking up the speed and intensity of your ONE stroke. The same way when you masturbate, and you are about to come, you'll begin stroking faster and faster until you cum.

Start off slow, and pick up intensity bit by bit with every moan and squirm.

Determination will get you through this, I promise. Don't let nothing stop you from reaching your goal. GO after it with ferocity!

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So she doesn't buckle that much, put two pillows under her ass, press your head on her pussy, suck right on the pink peanut (for her first clitoral orgasm, the successive ones can be made around or near the clitoris area), flick your tongue every now and then, and use both of your hands to hold her down.

When a woman is not yet turned on that much because the foreplay time is too short, her clit will be covered by that fleshy, fatty mound and will be hiding deep. When she's hot enough, her labia majora will be more open exposing the clitoris and her clitoris will increase in size, about double compared when she isn't hot enough. Of course, different girls will have different clitoris sizes; some you will easily see while some you will hardly see.

One good foreplay technique is to rub your penis (not insert it) at her clitoris while simultaneously hitting her pussy's crevice. Do this while her panties are still on so you'll get the proper angling on her clit and you don't penetrate her before she's hot enough. Likewise, you can easily gauge her wetness since her vaginal juices will drip to her panties. For good measure, use your tongue to lick on her ear while you're rubbing your dick at her pussy.

Once you feel that her underwear is dripping wet, immediately go down on her, remove her panties, and suck and lick on her clit. Even with the pillows underneath her ass, she will raise her ass some more to get more pressure from your face. When she does this and you can no longer hold her down, use both of your hands and put pressure on her butt cheeks towards your face while simultaneously pressing your face right where her clit is.

It will be very difficult to breath under these very violent conditions but it will help if she shaved her pubes before the act.

As much as possible, prevent your teeth from having contact with her clit. Your lips and tongue will be good and the sucking motion rather then the licking motion will give her the clitoral orgasms.

That's the physiological and physical parts of the equation. For the psychological part, play her favorite love songs in the background. Of course, when you're already banging her, you'll have better performance with songs like these:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UaLSwwSn8Mk[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TcJ-wNmazHQ[/youtube]

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UPDATE!: So a few days ago after sex we had a conversation

She said "this is something I'm very insecure about" and proceeded to tell me she has only ever had an orgasm a few times in her life (with guys, and many times she can't even when alone). She said she feels bad and is afraid I will stop trying with her because of this and that I think it is one sided. I asked if in the past she could consistently and she said no but a few times in her whole of sexual experiences. She said "I think I have come with you 1 or two times" and I asked her what position it was and she said she didn't remember because it was a year ago but it was when we first had sex without a condom (specified between times). I said well as long as we are honest with each other then we will work on it. She said I know I did (with me) I remember and she wouldn't lie about that.

She also said she has no freakin clue what makes her come and sometimes the same things that don't work DO work, and if I was doing something wrong she would tell me but everything I do is good/similar to what has gotten her off with/without me in the past.

So she was worried too! She kept saying she "wanted to please me in every way possible"

And by the way I told her to finish herself next to me and she couldn't and it is hard.

She has never lied to me and never tried to fake an orgasm or anything

This is typical so asking a girl how you can make her cum is like talking German to a Siamese cat. Several researches indicate that 100% of girls have no clue. The only time they got a clue was when the scientific researchers identified each part in the vagina and the accompanying sensations associated with it. That's the only time that the girls in the studies had clues.

Based on anecdotal personal experiences, I often hear girls say, "What are you doing? What's that you're hitting? It feels so good." Then I would say this is the spot just below your cervix at 11 o'clock or whatever. The next time we go into a fuckfest a few girls will request a particular spot but most will ask for everything I've got.
As I've said, everything is about the timing, right spots, right speed and escalation. Her vaginal parts will always remain the same. However, the sensation she will feel will vary due to those factors that I've already mentioned.

Note that this is not a hard and fast rule.

During a first fuck fest, a girl will cum so fast after less than a dozen thrusts due to anticipation and excitement. So there's a psychological component too on how fast she can cum but it's not a big factor in the long run.

Another factor that you should consider is that when a girl is drunk, it's gonna be difficult to make her cum.

If you want to know which parts make your girl cum faster, this is my technique on how to do it. What I do is probe all parts inside a girl with my penis. But I don't shoot at random. I invest sufficient time and effort per part and bang the girl in that one spot until she cums. If after 3 to 4 songs and she's not cumming in one particular spot, I change the spot and focus on that for another 3 to 4 songs.

What you don't want to do is to keep on changing the spots you're hitting every few seconds or every few minutes. You have to sustain the pressure at escalating (yet sustainable) speeds until she cums.

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thanks for the advice man! its funny, the other day I was going at it with her and I put her in a position where she was like "I don't know what you were doing in that spot but it felt REALLY good." Not to mention I didn't ask her what makes her cum, she told me that she had no freakin clue first

NP. I think you're about to become a badass with your bedroom skills Lionheart. That was a very positive feedback from your girl.

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