Dude that girl wants you and want to be with you, as i say be her secret lover friend frame and be there for her, you understand, LOW KEY/SECRET, try not to push her for a break up, talk to her, but do not put pressure on her to break up. It will happen eventually trust me, you are the one she wants to be with, the other dude is out of convenience, habit and pitty. Keep talking to her, but meanwhile get other girls, to keep you busy. It is gonna be hard cause you are attached and you are into this girl.

But remember you and her also have what in the community is called nre:

NRE - New Relationship Energy - that feeling of excitement that happens at the start of a new relationship

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Hey,

Thanks man.

She came over today and she said that he is being super needy.

I tried to act chill and cool. I fucked her again (I said i wasnt going to but she got me really hard so i did it) - is that okay.

I then went to my game, played soccer, received no texts from her. Then I call her after my game (hate it how im the one doing this) and she picks up saying hey and she is happy to talk to me. Im joking around with her talking about sex and she is talking about my cock and so on... then....

her 'needy' boyfriend pulls up to her house and she has to hang up. She then texts me saying "wtf i was enjoying our conversation i need space from this guy". She saw today that this other girl texted me today, and i dont hook up with this other girl but she wrote something to me today very forward and I screenshotted it for her to and laugh at but she got jealous and said 'fine enjoy that'.

Right now she is with him.

What you think? Am i playing this right?

Can I ask why i feel a shift between me and her though?

Is it because she choose him. She literally just said to me that she is with him but she doesnt think she can put up with him for much longer. And I accepted it?

I want to say to her, you cant get me easy after this or something. But I do feel a shift in dynamics between me and her and the texting and lust and joking around has died down. Ever since her bf walked in on us. How do I reignite this.

What is going on seriously. Why the fuck is this girl with this fucking beta bitch, and do i look beta for accepting it and still talking to her?

yes i am invested in her because I do like her, shes honestly a ten, my friends cant believe how sexy she is and beautiful and cute.

3 months from now:

Thread by whysoskinny "My HB10 Gf is acting suspicious...what do I do?"

6 months:

Thread by whysoskinny "My HB10 Gf slept with another guy but apologized...what do I do?"

9 months:

Thread by whysoskinny "My HB10 Gf slept with ANOTHER guy but apologized...what do I do?"


3 years:

Thread by whysoskinny "Can 2 white people make a mixed mexican baby?"

5 years:

Thread by whysoskinny "My HB 10 says we got AIDS from public restrooms...This can be true right?"

Jokes aside, this will happen. It takes a certain type of girl to be able to sleep around behind her bfs back as much like that. How do you know she is telling you the truth about the bf? Seriously, wear a rubber with this girl and if you haven't been get tested.

^ i already answer your questions you are NEEDY AS FUCK! Just by obsessing over this one girl... Read the book Mark Manson Models, you can find it on my site... You need it.

What is needy/onitis:

coming on the forum asking about this one girl?

Obsessing about this one girl and her behavior?

stressing about this one girl and the behavior?

She eventually will dump her bf, get with you, then realize you are a needy fuck, and get another dude like me... Write that down, unless stop being so needy, get other girls. I already told you what you need to do.

Being in needy is not faking(like you are) not being needy (when you really are in the inside)... get mark manson models... That is the book you need you will find your answers there.

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A guys role as a partner or mate is to protect your woman. You must protect her from her bf, protect her from that bad rep that he can give. How you may ask, who would he go to with this info? Intercept it. If not, its ok... expect the rumors to come pouring out of him because hes just playing whats known as a monkey dance. Dont play the game.... Dont worry about anything.... Alpha..... casually talk to her.... who cares about that last text you sent her about when shes ready to text you..... somtimes words just get blurted out....

Stop thinking if the tables are going to turn in the future. Just stop worrying about the future. If you think about the future, you will worry. live in the now my friend. Goodbye.

Why would you text her back at all?

So you can continue to sneak around and fuck her every once in awhile? She chose her bf dude, not you. She had a choice to make, she rejected you and went for him. Let it go. Why put yourself in the position of getting another ass kicking and have her choose him......again.

Let their situation resolve, fuck a few chicks while it does, and let it go.

If you do this, when she is fully single, she will contact you. Guaranteed.

After reading this and people saying to me "she wants you" but I am needy. I feel like I at least for now should enjoy the fact that she wants me.

I changed my snapchat name, added her again, we are joking around sending pictures. We are texting still and stuff, and she is with her bf tonight and tomorrow.

It doesn't feel the same as before, i feel like things have changed. I don't know, before their was the hope that she would of been with me and now she had the chance and choose him for bull shit reasons its like.. what is there to look forward to?

You guys say she wants me but I dont feel like she wants me. How do you know she actually wants me.

Also, have i created a cheater, or is there a chance that if she was with me I could possibly keep her.

I never said she wants you. I said the opposite. She had a clear choice, dump the dude and be with you. She rejected you.

Why you want to get sloppy seconds from her bf I do not know. The right decision is clear. Cut contact and wait for her to come to you, fuck women while you wait, and if you're involved with someone else by the time she does, then she's too late.

She's just using you as a backup plan for when life sucks ass with her bf. It probably feels different because she didn't choose you and now you know that you're a supplement to her, not the center.

Best of luck, I fear you'll need it.

scroll up and read what skills said.

I think she wants me but is just scared to leave him

I said she wanted you based on what you wrote... It seems like she went back with the bf our of guilt by going with your description...

My advise is if you still want to have sex with her, do it secretly and with discretion. But stop imagining and fantasizing a future together. Base on what you wrote she is in in love with her bf, but it may be the love you feel for a friend or a family member. And not sexual kind. She may be used to the other dude, but the passion is gone. And you are the new cool, fun, guy. That is why i keep saying do not be needy(when i say needy, means trying to make her your gf, and fantasizing about a future together). Also, i told you to get other girls so you get rid of the mild onitis.

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Skinny , Skinny, Skinny, let me break it down to you brah. You and her were never together. Your the side guy who's her dirty little secret. After all the "good times" you've had with her she's still with her "bf". Your just a side guy she hasn't chosen to commit to. Cut her off, if she chooses to pursue you she'll know the only way for you to respond is if she's willing to break up with her needy little bitch of a dude.

My advice bro, move on and cut her loose.

Okay hopefully this may clarify more things for you guys as he texte me a lot today. I was getting so fed up of this all I said to her this is ridiculous and I'm missin girl who use to make me laugh and not this needy guy. I turned my phone off and then 6 hours later I woke up to these texts:

of course i miss what we used to have even thoughi couldnt commit myself to u fully then i regret not giving you my entire self. i cant change the past but if i could i would have had the courage to end things with him. because i clearly fell in love with you for a reason. in 4 years no one has gotten between him and me but you changed me. you made me realize what it feels like to be loved, cared for and how to be treated. i know i wont find anyone like you again IN MY LIFE. my trying to make things work and see where they go with him is stupid because all i will do is compare you to him which is not even comparable. i know ithink ihave changed and i dont text or may act the same irs because now im just scared to fall more in love with u then i already do. and in my current situation its not fair to give u false hope but icant stop saying i love u or stop the feelings i have towards you. meeting you has changed me and i hate that its so hard to just give u myself at this time. i know u think im a coward but i cant just step away from him in the state he is in. i feel like he will realize soon that my love for him has faded and he will in time see too that things between us wont be the same. my love has been placed with you and i m so sad right now that i cant express those emotions to you on a regular basis.

She thenshowed me a screen shot of her conversation with her friend where she says she is terrified for my safety and her safety and her friend says she knows that she wants to be with me but understands why she is with him out of fear. (She showed me a text from him today to her saying "if your still texting your buddy tell him ill send him a death threat and cut his dick off for him and beat him up right there and then when I see hi" - fucking scared).

She then texted saying "ok i know ur busy. don't reply to anythint i said just take it and realize how much i love u ". An then she said "he is asking so many questions about you and wants to beat you up watch out".

Okay now with this being said, and now this is all up to date. What do you think about her stance. Is I fair or still an excuse. I see it... What do ireply.... And dude wtf how do I handle this bf I'm shitting muself

whysoskinny... you needy little prick. You had it coming. The BF kicked your arse and still keeps banging the babe, yet you still believe there's some magical formula that would blind a chick to your neediness.
You received good advices here, and chose to ignore them. However it seems you always come back butthurt, whining about what can you do.
And here's the magical solution for you: listen to the advice given here. Cut. Your. Losses.

Look at what I wrote above. Skills said that she wants to be with me and then maybe with her bf out of old love. Her texts CLEARLY show that she wants me and is just trapped and scared. If I go blind cold on this girl I loose her 100% and I could still get hurt and then it's a definite loss. Her text gives me hope cuz she even tells her friends she loves me