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| LarryDavid | PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2013 3:40 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Feb 18, 2013 8:17 am Posts: 70 | | ok so i have been trying to make a list of points and reminders to read over before I go out but am having some troubles.
Do anything have anything they read over quickly before going out? so far all I have is
-be buyer, not seller
-Push/pull ( make her chase)
-show no desperation, do no chasing
-no hesitation, no filter
- talk to all women
Any tips or any better pre game reads? _________________ Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David
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| Jay (Majik) | PostPosted: Wed Jul 17, 2013 3:55 pm | |
| Offline | | The Coach |  | Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am Posts: 4170 Location: Chicago, IL | | Honestly bro, don't do that. Just go out a little earlier than you usually would and get yourself into a talkative state. The first couple people you talk to, those interactions are going to suck ass (if they even wind up going anywhere at all) so just keep at it and try and make your next interaction better than your last one.
On your walk to the venue, start talking to people then. Don't wait til you get to the bar. You will suck shit and be so stuck inside your own head... It will fuck you over.
Typically, what I will do is find some smaller bar at first, treat myself to a tasty beer, and strike up a conversation with some people in there. Get myself talking. Then, I'll go where ever I want from there. At this point, I have already had an interaction with 5-10 people. Walk to the next bar/club and talk to a few more people... Keep the momentum going.
By the time I get to the bar, I am super talkative and have completely removed the filter from my mouth. It's go time from there.
Talk to everyone. Socializing is FUN.
Don't be a pussy. Be clear in your intent. Escalate and push as far as you can. If a set hooks, burn it to the fucking ground.
Have no expectations of outcome. You want her, but you don't need her. If a girl doesn't like you, laugh it off. Find something funny in the interaction.
Open every set that you possibly can. Don't give yourself the opportunity to come up with excuses. Just do it.
get the fuck out of your house. Start talking to people. They will reject you at first. It will piss you off... Use anger as your fuel for wanting to do better instead of giving up.
Hope this helps you out bro
-Majik
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