This is a tough one.
I want to focus on the advancement of myself as a whole but I don't know where to look, where to start (and if I've already begun, where to improve and what to keep up). So this leads me down to creating some sort of a design, a skeleton if I must, to help me see my whole life more clearly.

I've had issues with this before:
- Doing too much of one thing. (working too hard, trying too hard and forgetting about my own emotional health)
- Having too much of something in my life. (romance, fuck me, lol, I would've screwed my ex if I hadn't gotten like such a pussy.)
- Not noticing something slip away. (well, alot of things actually)

So, since I still have issues with the meaning of my own living (I don't know what I want because I don't know how to want something, I just need to take action and I will find out) I ask you this, what is the possible Skeleton of your life, of advancement?

OR

I want to get up, where to start, what should I look at and what does the whole thing look like?


BTW: My head is pretty much fucked up and so is my life. I'll try searching myself, but I need the deep roots cleared. ><
AND, I've been into PUA for like 1.5yrs, but not for getting laid, just for the advancement.

That's a good start man, you want to improve yourself as a man - and not just learn some 'pickup method'.

I'd tell you first to work on your physical appearance:

- Groom yourself
- Get a haircut
- Workout 5/6 days a week

Then from there, I'd focus on your mindset (Inner Game) - you can do this through visualization and meditation.

I've got more to write, but I'm kind of in a rush right now about to workout...

...but if you've got any questions, hit me up man :=)

Zak

Thanks for the reply.
I do workout almost every day (if I find the motivation to do so).

I just recently found out that I feel way better if I completely clear my mind of everything, instead of thinking that I'm full of something.

I have a few projects on my hand right now and I'll probably work on them in the near time (including the reason for this whole thread, "The Skeleton" of it all.)
I sense it is there, so I have to find it and manipulate it. :]