Hi guys,

so last saturday i went out clubbing and me and my friends went to a popular nightclub here as VIP.

To be honest my only intention was to go for the music because a semi famous dj was playing and i don't really care about girls on nights like these.

However, after being inside for 2 hours we go up to the smoking area and sit down, then 2 girls come sit with us and start talking to us, one girl was really interested in me and after talking to her for about 2 minutes or so she asked me if i had a girlfriend (huge IOI right?) and she asked me to sit next to her so she could hear me better.

Anyway, after some flirting for about 20 minutes we move and go to the dance floor after getting some drinks, after about 2 minutes she asks me to go to the VIP area with her, i accept and we go to the VIP area and sit there for about an hour, we kissed and talked about lots of stuff.

One thing she did tell me was that she had to "work" for me to make out with me and that she likes that in guys, she also said she normally never does stuff like this but that this just felt right for her (Didn't belive that but ok)

So after this we exchange numbers and dance for about 30 minutes on the dance floor, after that i said id go to my friends because they might be worrying where i am, she says thats ok.

Anyway after 30 min of dancing with my friends i decide to leave and see her near the exit talking with her guy friend, i tell her i am leaving and say goodbye, i didn't kiss her, i thought it might be inappropriate in front of her friends, then i leave. (I just came out of a relationship of 2 years, i had no idea what i should have done here (inexperienced) , should i have asked her to come with me or what?)

Anyway, i leave the club and i shoot her a text:

Me: Didn't want to kiss you infront of your friend, didn't want to make them jealous!
Her: Hahhaha no he's just a guy i work with!
Her: I thought you were scared
Me: Damn, missed opportunity ! Ah well
Her: But he's leaving now so i can't go to the VIP area anymore
Her: We're leaving as well
Me: So you're going to afterparty at McDonalds or are you gonna stalk us?

That last message she received but after that she blocked me. (I assume) (this was on SPAM)

2 days after this i texted her on sms the following

"Looking for: Girl from *Name of nightclub*
Signs: Smart and interesting personality (According to her words!)
I am afraid someone kidnapped her, if you know more about this contact me"

That "Smart and interesting personality" was some callback humor and you guys probally won't get it but ok.

She didn't respond to that text, so i am really wondering what did i do wrong guys?

I mean i am not really that sad that she blocked me, i am just super curious to why and what did i do wrong? I am really inexperienced at this stuff because i just came out of a relationship. Any help is appreciated


Thanks in advance guys

nothing glaring wrong. girls make out all the time at clubs and then nothing comes of it. You will learn as you get more experience that until you f-close, there is never a guarantee you are seeing a girl again.

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Because of this:

Me: Didn't want to kiss you infront of your friend, didn't want to make them jealous!
Her: Hahhaha no he's just a guy i work with!
Her: I thought you were scared
Me: Damn, missed opportunity ! Ah well
Her: But he's leaving now so i can't go to the VIP area anymore
Her: We're leaving as well
Me: So you're going to afterparty at McDonalds or are you gonna stalk us?

Your messages seam that you are trying hard to tease her and after one fail you did another.
You could have just said bye to that and text her on the next day to meet up again, you don't need to game the girl on the same day, also logistics were not in your favour since she was with their work mates, tho she had no problem to kiss you, but what you really wanted with that McDonalds message?

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I guess i just wanted to know where she was going, kind of expected something like this:

Me: So you're going to afterparty at McDonalds or are you gonna stalk us?
Her: Haha no we're going home right now

or

Her: Haha yes maybe

Just figuring out what her plan was i guess.


But i just don't understand the fact that she instantly blocked me after that message? Whats the logic in that? She spends all night with me and she kind of picked me up instead of me her, and then she instant blocks me on SPAM and doesn't respond to my text, that just seems weird, even if i may have made a mistake with those messages.

maybe she just mistook your jokes for you just being serious and actually not being interested in her, maybe that makes her feel a bit slutty and she doesn't like that

you're guess is as good as mine, you can guess all day, really doesn't get you anywhere, you could probably just ask her next time you see her if you really want to know where did you go wrong and if you even went wrong or if life just happened

for all you know she could have just had a raging diarrhea attack and couldn't get back to you cause her hands were too busy fighting off angry midgets that wanted to use the club bathroom

for all you know her friend could have just saw her hanging out with you and got all jelly, then when she was on whassup, her friend told her to block you cause you seemed like a loser and she didn't want to challenge her friend face to face and end up in a fight, so she just did what she was told even though she liked you

maybe SPAM showed up at the club and gave her the hero gothom deserved but didn't need, who knows

also, yes you probably should have asked her to go do something if you wanted to take her home, trying to take her home is probably going to be more likely to result in her coming home, then going home and not trying to take her with you