Well my face is sinking in, I don't know whats wrong. I donly had sex with one girl and I used a condom every time ( i only penetrated 3 times, it was the same day that I first ****ed her)... She gave me head twice withought A condom and I fingered her once in a theater but other htan that no real skin to skin contact. Now like a year later my face is sinking in around my eyes and on my nose, it looks pretty wierd lol scary too . But anyway later on some people told me she has something and that he hoped I didn't **** her, but this was after the fact.... THen I noticed a picture were her face looked kinda wierd and flat too ...omg I can't have aids! that would be ****ing crazy...off my first ****! thats real ****ty...SO i'm hoping these sentoms are because either i'm getting older (18) or because i'm allergic to something in my new enviroment at the dorms I stay in... Either way I look kinda wierd right now not really wierd to the untrained eye but my mom noticed it! anway my mom thinks its because i havn't been drinking enough water!

also my dick has been smelling like dead fish lately bro lol how gay!

p.s. I got head a few weeks ago from a girl with no condom, she was said to be a hoe to, so i'm 18 with lots to worry about! what do you guys think?

Um.. You can probably get a lot more information at your doctors office than you can from a message board of pick up artists.

Go get checked. It is the responsible thing to do

your right but i'm scared lol.I asked her if she got tested bro and she said yeah every 6 months she does. She seemed a little offended, but yeah I think this is a prper place to ask, because most of you have had sex before! so why can't I ask before I go to the doctor?

it's inappopriate to ask this here coz it's not a sex health forum, it's a pu forum. and it's also inappopriate to post the girl's file link on a public forum and accuse her of having STD with any hard evidence, all ur evidence are hearsay, which are not reliable. this called defamation and it's illegal.

so u get yourself checked before coming to a conclusion. it's only a blood test. takes only a few days to get the result.

Ok, since you used a condom every time; i would doubt that you contracted HIV.

Regarding oral sex - It is quite difficult for you to contract HIV from her if she was blowing you because there's nothing really going into your body unless you had an open cut or wound on your penis.

Anxiety, stress, and fear take a toll on the body psychologically and physically, which could be the reason for your paleness.

Between 5-15 years pass from the time of inflection until AIDS actually develops.

Plus - I wouldn't jump straight to HIV, there are alot of STDs out there and you may have contracted something else that may be very treatable; as alot of them are.

Best Bet - Worrying does you no good. Go get yourself tested and know what's going on.
In the meantime - ABSOLUTELY NO SEX OF ANY KIND.

I wish you the best.

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there are normally free clinics in or around your town that you can go and be tested for AIDS and other STDs for absolutely free.

do a goodle search for it. they can normally take you within two days or so, and you get your STD test back in a few days, and your HIV normally takes a few weeks.

what do you have to lose?

hope it all works out, and don't get too stressed out about it yet. good luck buddy

Go get checked. Other than that I dont know what to tell you. good luck

DISCLAIMER: I am a medical professional and you are NOT my patient. I am giving you advice that I would give to any of my friends and family. I am not diagnosing or treating your ailment. I cannot be help liable for the diagnosis or SPAM or possible progression of any illness or injury that you may have.

Now that that's done...

Okay, so you mean to tell me that you've had multiple sexual partners and you haven't gotten tested for STDs? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

My first suggestion is to NOT go to a free HIV clinic and get a test done(I'm a firm believer in the theory that 'you get what you pay for'). You should, however, go to your primary care physician and recieve a full examination. This examination (beyond a routine physical) should include a full panel of blood tests including but not limited to a HIV test (there are two main types, don't worry about which one) and a Hep C test, among the rest of the STDs. Your primary doc has all of your records and (should) know you personally. He has an intimate knowledge of your medical history. Armed with this information, he can more accurately diagnose your potential illness.

It's not worth jumping to conclusions about if you've got a disease or not until you get your results back. The quicker that you get to your MDs office, the quicker that you can be placed on medication that can slow the progression of any ailment that you MAY have. If you and the MD agree that you may have been exposed to HIV, you will be put on one or medications until the test results come back and you are either diagnosed with a strain or you are told that 'all is clear.'

I know that HIV is the scary name now-a-days, but don't be narrow minded in thinking that HIV is the only disease to think about, there may be bigger fish to fry.

That is some of the basics. There's just way too much for me to get into in this thread, if you have any specific questions or you need me to clairfy anything, PM me.

You are responsible for your own health. Do your homework and be responsible.


Mostly true. There have been cases in New York and California (there may be other areas, but I'm not aware of them) where the convertion from HIV to AIDS has been signifigantly reduced. Link to CNN Article from 2005.

Also keep in mind that if you actually have the HIV virus in your body, you will almost immediately see T4 cell convertion, which is why it's important to get on antiviral medications to slow the progression of the virus. Early SPAM is key.

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well, i can't help you more than everyone else hear has as far as STD's, but in my new book i am reading, 'the definitive guide to body language,' there is some advice for this type of situation...

the power of laughter.

let explain from a little excerpt in the book

"Laughter stimulates the body's natural painkillers and 'feel good' enhancers, known as endorphins, helping relieve stress and heal the body. When Norman Cousins was diagnosed with the debilitating illness ankylospondylitis, the doctors told him they could no longer help him and that he would live in excruciating pain before he died. Cousins checked into a hotel room and rented every funny movie he could find: the Marx brothers, Airplane, The Three Stooges, etc. He watched and rewatched them over and over, laughing as hard and loud as he could. After six months of this self-inflicted laughter therapy, the doctors were amazed to find that his illness had been completely cured--the disease was gone! this amazing outcome let to the publishing of Cousin's book 'Anatomy of an illness,' and the start of massive research into the function of endorphins. endorphins are chemicals released from the brain when you laugh. they have a similar chemical composition to morphine and heroin and have a tranquilizing effect on the body, while building the immune system. This explains why happy people rarely and miserable but complaining people often seem to be ill."

this book is amazing, and should be in every PUA's library because it has many things on how to make a confident, attractive appearance.