So I've been talking to this girl on facebook and we had a really fun and playful time. I met her once a month ago and we made out. One week after I met her she went completely cold.

Now, I've been told by her after many weeks of silence that she's afraid and panic with guys that she likes because of her past relationship with her boyfriend.
Could it be bullshit, and she's just being polite due to the fact that she cares about me as a friend or something.

I think this all happened because I wanted to meet her again just one week after our meeting. I asked if she wanted to hang out if I was in town so it was not obviously needy or creepy.

So she won't open up. She won't contact me.
Should I just wait and give her space? I'm am afraid it will die completely out, if it hasn't already.
I could try talk to her in a similar playful tone like we used to.

Try one more time to talk to her with The intent of meeting up, and if she gives you The cold shoulder Then forget about her and move on to The next, if you dont pay attention to her it might get her thinking and take The first step to contact you next time

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I think I'll just not contact her. I feel like a needy idiot for trying to talk to her for the past weeks.
I need to show her that my life is full of awesome and I'm not hung up on her. But if she talks to me I'll be nice and playfull.

Does it sound good?

If I scared her away, is there anything I can do? Will she always think of me as a threat?

No, i kissed all Night with a girl and tried to take her home a bit to agressivly and she then Webt cold and wouldnt speak or answer me, i ignored it but then a month later she contacted me and we Hook up and i dont make Any contact but she still tries to meet up.. So i cant easily turn around when she starts wondering why you dont give a fuck about her anymore

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if you made out with her then it's needy or creepy to want to meet up again. but im surprised you didnt get back to her a bit sooner than just a week.

but you need to read the message she's giving out here, which is that she doesn't want to meet up. however she justifies it, so deal with that and move on.

you could ask if you did something wrong? but not with a view to meeting again. or if you actually want a friendship say "I'd like things to just be how they were before when we had fun, can we do that?" but actually mean it.

it doesn't look like this ones getting any 'deeper' so if thats what your intention would be I'd probably do nothing and move on

NOT needy or creepy I meant to say. ahhh fack. totally changed the meaning of that