Hey players, pua's...

I am writing this to see if someone can crack this case and give me an interesting advice!
I am usually good with women, never had a real and serious problem to get a women in bed.
However, this woman I am going to talk about is one exception. Why? I have no idea, but trust me, she is!
I met her last year while she was doing some tourism, so yeah, we don't live in the same country.
I was able to isolate her from her friends, and was able to spend 3 days with her alone.
First day we had a long and innocent conversation (learned about eachothers lives and stuff). Second day I grabbed a bottle of some nice liquor and took her for a nice walk. We spent like 10 hours together, talking and talking. At some point we were laying down on the grass, and I asked her to give me a massage. She didn't think twice, she absolutely started giving the massage, and then asked one in return. So when it comes to Kino, this was considered a huge step for me. I was able to make her feel really comfortable while touching her all over her body. But for a reason I don't know, I just couldn't make a move, to kiss her or anything. And I was really surprised about it (this is why I call her an exception). And I am quite sure she wasn't that impressed about my innocence. The next day, I asked her to come to my place, and she came. Surprisingly, I messed up again. Couldn't make a move at all. Next day she left to her country, but we kept talking via texting.
Few months later, she told me that she used to have strong feelings for me, but it just can't work out because we're far away from eachother. So here I suppose she friendzoned me immediately.
We kept talking and talking, months went by and I started to have some feelings for her. And I told her about my feelings like 3 weeks ago. She was like "I don't know what to say, I really don't have the same feelings anymore, I have to meet first and see what happens".
So eventually, we're still talking, and I invited her to my country, and she's going to stay at my place for like 2 nights.
I really don't want to screw this up, she's really a catch! Do you think that this is sort of a green light from her? If she comes, it really means that she's giving me another chance to make my move so I can get out of the friendzone. Right?

Sorry for this long story guys, but I would really appreciate some real solving here. Thanks

I would like to add that she's not an easy woman too...

It's the ONLY chance you will ever get.
This is WHERE you got "friend zoned!"

Indicate clearly you ARE going to fuck her when she is there, and DO THAT!

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Not much to say here. Move on. It's over. Long distance sucks anyway.

_________________
http://www.joshsway.com -- dating, online dating, fitness, fashion, and more...

Why she's special, why you couldn't escalate? You're just afraid of messing things up, it's that simple. Think about it, do you have anything to lose? Really to lose? She said she felt strong for you, reflect and see what you did, do it again. Dont mention your feelings to her, pretend you never did.

Her coming over, if it's solely for you, is a good indicator to be honest. She knew how she felt, she's giving it a shot. Make sure that within these 2 days you escalate like a caveman, give it all or nothing. If she freezes you out, you've got yourself a good friend, if she complies, you got what you wanted. Both ways are win-win, but if you dont do shit, you'll lose both.

I don't have a clear answer for why I couldn't escalate back then, but the best I could say is that she was really different, talking to her was really nice that I didn't think much about sex.
About the reflection thing, I am still the same as when we met, that's the thing. I did nothing special to impress her. I was just myself. But you can't make a girl wait for ever, especially if she has feelings. That's what I did, so she friendzoned me and was able to get over me.

If we think about it a bit, I guess that if i never mentioned my feelings for her she probably wouldn't have considered meeting me again. Or she would've came but in a totally other mentality.

Now that she knows how I feel, and that she agreed to come, I am sure that she's expecting a move from me. And to be honest if she's expecting a move, then she's interested to get straight to the point. Or else she would've made an excuse to not come.

So when it comes to all that, I have to agree with Heywood Jablowme. This girl is giving me the second and only chance and I am going to take it. I made a mistake when we first met, and apparently she's helping me learn from that stupid mistake. And I did, so I am going to make a strong move towards her exactly the same night she arrives.

If anyone has different thoughts, please go ahead and tell me.

She is definitely coming or is this a far trip in the future that she is going to cancel on? Make a strong move if she comes, but I think she cancels on you.

_________________
http://www.joshsway.com -- dating, online dating, fitness, fashion, and more...

haha come on man! You're being too negative since the beginning...
She's coming in 4 weeks. She didn't book her flight yet though because she still have few things to verify first.

Sorry man, just giving you my honest opinion. I've seen this shit happen a lot and i'd rather you move on and get other girls and forget about her and if she does end up coming and shit goes well, then great! But I know everyone says they are still going out, hitting on other girls etc, but usually they are not doing nearly as much as they would normally and instead waste time and emotional energy holding out hope.

Anyways, keep us updated! I hope it works out for you.

_________________
http://www.joshsway.com -- dating, online dating, fitness, fashion, and more...

I know man. I know this shit happens a lot. But in my case this girl is really not slowing me down.
I can be honest and say that I am not hitting on girls right now the same way as before, but sure not because of her. I am currently busy with other stuff. And as you said earlier, long distance sucks so I am not counting on it.
If she comes, great. If not, there will be other women out there.
So I only want to know people's opinion about what it means if she comes.

Thanks! I'll keep you updated for sure.

I think if she comes you are probably good to go, but you have to make a strong move like guys here said.

_________________
http://www.joshsway.com -- dating, online dating, fitness, fashion, and more...

That's exactly what I meant by learning from my mistake. I definitely won't mess it up again. If she comes, i'll make sure she wishes if she could stay some more...

New updates guys and it's urgent. This girl can't come anymore because of some money problems, but she invited me to her country and to her place instead.
However, we've been talking and talking about this meeting, and she said once that she's meeting so we can be able to be friends. So she doesn't want to lose me as a friend.
This said, I don't know what to expect anymore. I am so confused about everything.
Any quick help would be really appreciated !!
Thanks everyone.

I'd personally at this point say can it move on that's what I'd do, unless you're up for traveling to her country, but it sounds like there may be some drama involved. Do whatever you you feel will help you sleep at night but I am gonna say its time to move on.

To be honest I thought about moving on for a while, but then I thought that it's maybe not the best idea. I simply never met a girl like her...
So yes, I am considering visiting her in her country, but I'm still not 100% sure about it.
What do you think will the consequences be in case I travel to see her? You were talking about drama and stuff, can you elaborate more?
Thanks.