I am only attracted too a small percentage of girls maybe 5 percent. If girls have attitude are chavs/bitchy I'm not attracted, if they are quite chubby i'm not attracted, if their face aint that nice i'm not attracted. If too skinny i'm not attracted. As genral rule i'm mostly attarcted girls who weigh less than me probs between 8-10 stone, who are feminine and sexy, nice arse figure ect. These are genrally college/uni girls. The problem is I ain't having much success with girls I want at all. Logically , as you would expect, these girls seem be much harder hook up with. Generally they are part medium/large group girls dancing, sexy as fuck to watch but hard too approach without all girls jumping in, just genrally loving attention but just having good time. In reality these girls probs are banging guys within their large social groups at uni through friends ect and have less a need to hook up with guys in clubs. But going on nights out and limited success with girls is starting too drain on me. I don't know what to do, do I need to just stop going clubbing and try approaching these girls in daytime. I would say should I try get horny for a larger pool of women but i've tried this had better results than I've had with girls im attracted too but later realised I was tryna bang them just for sake of it and i'd still get alot of rejections. I only truly realised when I got laid a few times and I felt underwhelmed. I'd put myself through a ton of rejections of girls I werent even into only too then bang a couple of them then after i more felt like I'd serviced them rather than done anything for myslef; yet i'd been putting myself out there gaming them ect. Been out last two nights struggling find any optimism right now.

Hey man,

This is extremely common for the guys that are still fresh and new into the game, but you get stronger and things certainly get better. Maybe you want to hire a coach that can help you out (wink wink) lol.

But you know those thai kids that are taught to kick palm trees until they break their shins? And then they let the shin heal and it grows back stronger and they break it again and again, until its as solid as a rock. This is what you are doing, you are kicking the tree and shattering your shin. Maybe its time to take a step back, go out, observe the scene but don't do a single approach. Just watch what goes on and let yourself heal a bit. I know its not physical so we don't see the need to "Heal", but as people we need to help emotional, mentally, as well as physically.

Heal... and get back to approaching in a few weeks; you may find girls even coming up to you!

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