This shit does work. OK, so I attend this "gathering" once a week, where I met this attractive woman. HB7 or so. Anyhow I find out shes married. No big deal, but my nervousness was disarmed by realizing this. So, I just chit chat kinda chill, and can be myself. Not nervous at all. A few times I touched her hair, one time I asked her if it bother her, and she said you touched it? One, she didn't notice physically. but her emotions seemed to vibe it. My seemingly AFC move asking her about it only served to reinforce it. I did it again, as I cant help it, its like I am on auto kino. Then I go sit somewhere else, and leave without talking to her. Dont care about the outcome. So she texts me, and jokingly asked me over to touch her hair. Woa. SO we keep textiing. I am kinda playing it off, then she keeps implying some kind of attraction/sexual frustration thing without saying it. She is starting to feel frustrated at my lack of validating her. She said maybe I am making things up in my head. I said, NO, I am attracted to you. Blew her away. Iv learned tons from this interaction! I hope this makes some sense to others here...