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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 2:27 pm 
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So I met this girl with a direct opener, she seemed interested in me, we talked for about 10 (because I was late for something), exchanged numbers and when I left she texted me right away.
Anyway we texted occasionally but she suddenly didn't respond back. We were talking about her hometown (she lives near my college campus but I live 2 hours away the campus) and I stated something about the people over there being hard drinkers and I was surprised a girl as beautiful as her was from over there.

Now she responded 4 days later with multiple texts saying things like "aww thanks", "sorry for answering now" and "hope u are ok! :)". I had planed to go over there and meet with her in less than 2 weeks.

What should I respond? should I wait a while or just ignore her until I decide to ask her out?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 2:38 pm 
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So I met this girl with a direct opener, she seemed interested in me, we talked for about 10 (because I was late for something), exchanged numbers and when I left she texted me right away.
Anyway we texted occasionally but she suddenly didn't respond back. We were talking about her hometown (she lives near my college campus but I live 2 hours away the campus) and I stated something about the people over there being hard drinkers and I was surprised a girl as beautiful as her was from over there.

Now she responded 4 days later with multiple texts saying things like "aww thanks", "sorry for answering now" and "hope u are ok! :)". I had planed to go over there and meet with her in less than 2 weeks.

What should I respond? should I wait a while or just ignore her until I decide to ask her out?
Ask her out straight away.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 2:46 pm 
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Uhh I cant just ask her out on my first text after 4 days... She had already told me we would get to know each other when I got back or when classes start. I wanna know if I should adress the fact that she took 4 days to reply, at least say "its ok dont worry" or neg her.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:07 pm 
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i would:
take a long time responding to her if i respond at all

not rag on a chicks hometown and say you heard they were all alcoholics in the future


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:11 pm 
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Ignore and continue. A few texts back and forth then ask her out. See if she's REALLY interested.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:40 pm 
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You could start by no longer viewing these things as a " 'Big 'Deal" or a deal at all. You're out there meeting women, you are already a step above a lot of the guys here. Theres no " Time" or "Space" when you are dealing with women. All is fair in love & war so treat this just as if she responded saying " I'm so happy we met, I can't wait to finally go out with you :) " .

How would you respond if she said that? Thats how you respond to this.

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bump.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 6:04 pm 
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Wait a few hours, nothing more as then your behavior may come off as childish (passive aggressive).
Act as though the two of you hadn't skipped a beat (be enthusiastic).


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