I won't bore you guys with a long post but 4 days ago I met up with a friend of mines. This friend of mines is a White guy in his mid 20s that travels a lot and is good with women himself. He asked me what kind of women I like and I said White. Usually I don't showcase my preferences, especially not in the deep south where even saying you are a minority that likes White girls a lot can bring you issues.

My friend said I am not in the right area of the USA to date them. Tells me about how so many White women he has talked to down here have showed strong opposition to dating interracial, especially if it was with Asian, Indian, brown latino, or Middle Eastern men. He tells me anyone who is foreign looking down here is considered different and women who are White and Southern especially do not want to touch him.

We can go on and on about "game" but location and logistics are everything. I know that if Indian doctors are struggling to hook up with White women down here, game isn't gonna save me.

About his advice:

So I ask him if I should move to a place like NYC or Southern California. My friend tells me no because most White women there are more demanding and materialistic since they have their pick of men. Told me about how an 8/10 or above has so many options in a city like NYC that she can afford to be as picky as she wants.

I ask him what his advice is.

My friend tells me to go to a place in the world where I stand out. A place where I will be one of the very few Indian looking or Brown guys in the crowd. Tells me about his trip to Boise, ID where he met this Indian guy (very average looking) with a cute looking Blonde wife. Showed me the picture on his phone and I was amazed, this guy did not look better than me and yet he was married to this cute blonde and they had a kid.

He tells me that diverse areas a bad idea if you want to pick up girls who are White since most of them will go into their little cliques and won't associate that much with minorities. Told me about how segregated Atlanta was and having been there I do agree with him.

Tells me I should check out states like Minnesota, Nebraska, Iowa, and Idaho because

1. A lot of White girls there look surprisingly good
2. Being a Brown guy won't work against me if I look good (and I do) because women there are not as accustomed to seeing a Brown person

What do you say?

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Nah man. Bad advice. It doesn't matter where you live. In smaller communities you'll see segregation but not in big ones. Those states he mentioned are loaded with small towns. More population= More diversity. America is the melting pot of the world. We come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. I believe a lot of your troubles stem from self doubt. A corn fed Midwestern ho won't like you any more than a southern girl will.

The area I live in is very diverse, the only thing is all the White people here segregate themselves, women especially, from others.

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Since you won't actually give a shit about what people will say, and will object when people will tell you you're wrong, YES, IT'S THE RIGHT ADVICE. Move to Iowa and try to get with as many blondes as you can.

Just don't come back whining that white girls in Iowa don't like you.
That guy just didn't give a fuck about the dissonance that he is Indian and she is a good looking white woman. You take out one example and think it represents the whole population. I know a man in Los Angeles, most average Indian guy who works as a banker and doesn't give much shits, who is married to a beautiful blonde yoga instructor.
Generalized statement based on his personal experience. I've been to/lived in most of the United States, and there will be good looking and bad looking women everywhere. There was never a man who thought, "Ah! I am a handsome man. I'm going to find a beautiful woman, move to Bumblefuck, USA and make a population of gorgeous white women."
You can't put shit and candy in the same box and expect a person to pick shit just because it's different. Work on changing yourself, not your environment.


White woman don't like you not because you're Indian, but because you give a shit about things that don't matter.

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I live in New York City, have brown skin and I've been with women of every racial backround. I have white, spanish, asian and black friends who have each done the same in this city. I also have friends that can't get laid at all despite what they look like.

I'm not going to add to this too much, but this concept is just a bit limited and silly. An interesting guy is an interesting guy despite what he looks like.

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And yes I will say you guys are bullshitting when you say there is something wrong with me. I look good and I am a funny guy (people laugh with me not at me). This is my problem with people who deny reality, I live in reality, not some made up imagination where a beautiful southern Blonde will ignore the fact a guy is Indian if he looks good, is confident, and offers value as you say, doesn't matter, things are the way they are here and they will not change. If you think so, you are crazy.

And don't give me the bullshit about some Indian guy you know who married a beautiful blonde, unless you have pics of this friend, I am not interested in hearing your fictional story (and my friend had pics). People told me the same about my college town and how they see so many Indian guys here with White girls, well guess what Merlin the Wizard, I have been here for a while and sarged a lot, never seen it ONCE.

This is my issue with you guys, you always tell someone "oh your game sucks your game sucks" rather than the fact that the given location sucks to begin with.

If non-WHite girls love me while White girls hate me, environment does matter. Please get out of your bubble.

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there are plenty of places in the US where girls won't be attracted to guys of certain races etc. but there should be plenty around who do not care.

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You're delusional if you think your opinion is the popular opinion. Your words and thoughts reflect who you are, and all you do is bitch and moan about your environment. It's kind of like a crazy homeless person cursing god that he made him homeless.

If you think you're right, then move. This is probably 13th thread you've made about the fact that location is why you can't put it in a white woman. Stop complaining about it and move. What kind of other validation do you need? You can make 20 more threads and every community member will tell you, "Yes Paramount, you're an invincible sexy fuck and the only reason you suck dick at getting pussy is because they just don't like your kind where you are."
A person who actually lives in reality will never say I live in reality, not imagination, just like a crazy person will never say he is crazy.

Besides, your imagination is your reality. You think that you suck with white women and BOOM, you suck with white women.

Go read up on your Nietzsche instead of making repetitive threads.
Once again, if you think that you're the hottest sausage on the grill, and nobody likes you because you're Indian, move elsewhere.
You sound like you're talking out of your ass. If you don't believe what people say on the internet, why are you asking these people questions? Of course, denying the truth if it goes against your "reality" is the way, I know.
Yeah, because there are not that many Indian guys in Georgia to begin with. Using basic internet search, there is roughly 1 Indian person per each 100 people. If you take into account that roughly half of them are women, there is 1 Indian male per 200 people. If you take into account that most of them are children, married, have nonwhite women, and don't go to the same places as you do, chances are that you're not going to see one with a white woman.

Your environment issue is just a sad excuse to not leave your house and bitch about the topic.
Don't make me whip out the countless memes that Google has of you from other forums.

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What I marked in red is hard to believe. If your online vibe is different from your in person vibe, then I would say your online anger, hatred, racism, neediness, stupidity and insecurities have thankfully not spilled over to the people you interact with in person.

I have yet to read a playful or funny post from your end. Most of what I've read from you are very negative; you suck the positive energy out from most of the helpful people around here.

On topic: The advice is most likely 80% bullshit and maybe 20% valid.

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Here's a picture of an Indian dude with the white girls he's been banging after an orgy:




Here he is at work in his office uniform:

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Don't listen to his advice. I live in Belgium, when I travelled to Eastern Europe, I thought they would be easier than where I live. I don't know why, but I thought that. I was wrong. They are all the same. I met travellers from Australia and they thought the girls in Europe would be easy too, they had to conclude they were wrong too. We all think that in an other country or city the women are better, easier, more socially etc.

Women are basically all the same. They all have their own preferences. Some like latins, some like asians. Taste is subjective.

My advice is this:
If you are comfortable living where you are now, then stay there. Don't travel because you think the women might like you more. Grass is always greener on the other side.

PS: I'm half Asian. I understand you. I'm not fully native too.

If you move somewhere for women, you're a desperate man (not talking to you directly Para) and it will come out. Live in the city that you enjoy and that's best for your career.

Dude I've seen people missing limbs, in wheelchairs, 500+lbs people, people who really got dealt a tough hand in life with women and you get on here and try to tell us we're crazy for answering your question correctly. I didn't want to attack you as most people have but damn. You make it hard to bite my tongue. Get it together dude! Snap out of it! The fact that your an Indian doesn't matter. Very, very little if at all. The fact that you think it's a problem is in fact why it is a problem. Why hasn't this sunk in? I'm a fat guy. I'm 320lbs and I'm no player by any means but I've never had trouble finding a girlfriend or at least a date. I'm comfortable in my body and I don't make it an issue. Either do they. I've noticed some women show some unattraction at first. I usually won't give them much of my time. I fuck it up later. lol Maybe you should also reconsider your target group if your so racially driven. Hot blondes are as American as baseball and apple pie. That's what "everyone wants" here so the competition will be very tough anywhere you go. Like the other poster said. If you believe it's true. Move. It's gonna be an interesting rant we'll get to read when you get there I'm sure. I look forward to it.

Hey Paramount21 let me ask you something?

Are there lots of white girls in your working environment, classrooms or activity that you practice regularly?
When you go out with friends are also some girls in your group?

If the answer is no, then you are going to have a lot of trouble hooking up with girls and indeed it will be more difficult to do that with the ones that are not from your same origin...
Just look around most couples in the world are from the same race, even when they live in a mixed society. I know everyone of you can come up with an example of interracial couples, they exist I know but they are the minority.

Maybe in some small cities where people is not so traditional you'll increase your chances of finding girls that like you by being exotic. And also in big cities even if there is more competition there are more activities and groups to join, more people who left families, traditions in order to find themselves so statistically it will be easier to find someone who is naturally into you.

In none of the places and countries that I've lived I can say that women are easy to get. But by far the worst place for dating and meeting woman that I've seen is the Flemish part of Belgium.

To Aptitude: Any luck picking up in Belgium? any insight that you can share?

It's difficult for me to compare, because my gaming experience abroad is limited to Spain and Hungary.
I'm just a beginner, but this is what I can tell you about Belgium:

I don't see a difference in the level of gaming. The only thing I can say is that in Hungary and Spain, the girls drink more alcohol, which makes things easier. This is just an assumption, because I was in Budapest and I kissed a girl for an whole hour in a night club (the night club was Instant Groove, btw) and she was sober.

I always thought Belgium was filled with hard-to-get girls, but I really can't make that conclusion. I was for one day in Leuven, and I kissed a girl in a group. I didn't had to use group theory. I just talked to the girl I was interested in and just ignored the rest of the group.

Is success-rate lower in Belgium? I don't know. Maybe in the future I can tell. I'm too noob right now. I have a lot to learn.