Hi,

I have been 3 years in the game now had some amazing experiences. I had tons of fun. But somehow I lost my enthousiasm. It drastically decreased my results.

- I don't want to have sex with girls who are not interesting or inspiring. i.e. party girls
- The jokes i make are not funny to me anymore, lets say that i improvised 50% of the stuff.--> i lost my authensity with it..?
- I often think girls are not interesting enough or not sexy enough--> I lost how to enjoy women or something..
- Thinking that i might just want a decent connection, i.e. that i am ready for a serious relationship.--> Is game the right way to get one?
- Or I just had too many negative results. The funny thing is that i am still learning. That is why i keep going, but damn man, i starting to hate game.
- I just want to appreciate woman and being appreciated, as i believe that is the way to create a connection.
- Oh and yes i do have my standards, but somehow i feel they influence the fun i am having.

Questions I have:
- Should i just stop gaming for a while and focus more on doing things with friends or something?
- Should i stop making jokes and start asking only questions that are of interest to me? wondering whether without sexual escalation and teasing the same emotianal impact can be made?

Really anyone with the same problem and how do i recover from it? Actually I do not really have a clue where it is coming from. Or what I should do against it.

Thanks.

Dude, this can be because of a lot of things.

I mean, if all you're focusing on is game and not really trying anything new and stepping outside your comfort zone a bit more, you are going to get bored.

Another thing is, you should get a hobby. Something you love to do and are passionate about - then because you've got more of an abundance of what you love to do, you'll appreciate pick up more.

One more thing, don't take any of this too seriously - just have fun and self amuse.

Zak :=)

Hey bro..

This is extremely common; the more girls you have sex with the higher you standards will go. This is the reason why rockstars and some other celebs turn to homosexuality. All of the old stuff just doesn't get them off anymore. This life of meeting and banging a lot of women is a gift and a curse; all the guys that get laid once a month won't really understand your situation or be able to help you with it because they can't relate. I've experienced a dose of what your going through but the difference with me is I learned from a lot of players before me who warned me of this very thing. I was taught to always have multiple outlets and sources where I could gain happiness and joy because after a while women don't won't do it for you the way they did in the past.

Its probably be to just step away from the game for a while and realign yourself with who you are and what your purpose is. Take a break from women, I know I've had to on multiple occasions. Go celibate for 3 months, no masturbation or anything; women will be throwing it at you harder than ever but stick to your goal and focus on yourself. The answers are all already in you, its the external distractions that keep you from hearing them. Step by, go into the desert for 40 days and 40 nights like jesus did.( metaphorically of course)

Joey

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Thanks zak for the great answers.

Hmm but still inshould be more seriously qualifing.