So there's this girl...

I asked her out initially, she said no.
I maintained interest in her despite her rejecting me. We talked and become quite close friends afterwards. I suspect that she got feelings for me as well but I never asked her out again, thinking that she didn't want a relationship. We stopped talking however because she never texted me first and that annoyed me. A few weeks later she started dating a new guy.

That was two years ago. I've decided to reconnect with her. She's still going out with this same guy. I've been with multiple women since this crush, but I have always liked her. I've decided I now have the confidence to reach out to her once again.
The plan is to go out with her and have a fun time, remind her of what great friends we used to be and how well we got along together. At the end of the night, I want to reveal how I feel about her. This is where it gets tricky, and the reason for my post becomes clear. I have a few ideas, but if anyone could offer their detailed wisdom on how it should be done, I'd really appreciate it

Hey

This thing isn't going to work if you go into it trying to be Mr.SecretDouble agent. If you remind her of what great friends she used to be that'll also remind her that she had to friendzone you in the past. Be clear about your intentions and don't hide them for fear of dealing with rejection. Sure this is a tough mission because she friendzoned you before, not to mention she currently has a boyfriend, but its certainly possible. However, you can't go being who you were before because you'll get the same results you got before. What did Einstein say? " Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."

Go in with confidence and your guns blazing! Be open and flirty with her from the jump. If you like her you shouldn't have to tell her, you should be able to SHOW her. Don't even bring up the fact that you have feeling for her, let your actions speak for you and she'll be all over you.

Joey

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You're putting the cart before the horse.

First off, that guy she was dating? She is still dating now. If you fell off the radar completely and their relationship has only gotten more serious, how much alone time you think she'll give you?

Let's see if she wants to meet up at all before you start writing the first draft of the "I have feelings for you" speech. Which, I assure you, will kill all chances of you getting this girl.

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