Disclaimer: I found another chick to go out with so not all is lost for tonight.

So I met this girl online we texting/chating/etc. Couldn't meet first weekend as it was her bday weekend. She suggested Tuesday, I said I have a class until 10 so she said thats too late. Then when I got out she invited me to a drink near her, but I was grocery shopping and didn't expect to go out with her so couldn't. She said how about the next day. So that day she was sick. She suggested brunch by her place but then would let me know. Texted me the next day after scheduled time saying she was sick, but I don't think she was lying cause she really sold it. Then suggested I pick her up near work. at 6pm today. I said sure , then she texts me today we still on. Yes, Then she says she getting out of work at 3 so I can hang out near her and if 6 is too early then 7 would work.

I said how about 730 since I told her I was at the beach and trains are running slow. She says oh I donno I have plans at 9. I told her we should probably reschedule, and she was like you don't wanna meet me.

my issues and maybe I'm wrong.

1. Everything is super easy for her, oh lalala I decided I'm free come by me, oh cancel but if you want brunch come by me, oh pick me up, or later come by me. I get that w chicks you have to hunt them down in the beginning but its cool when someone is willing to meet halfway. That I'm willing to over look no biggy

2. So she cancelled twice but it seemed sortof legit. So I figure I got plans with her. Figured we'd get drinks. I realize blind dates you never know how long they gonna be but in my experience unless they day lunch thing on a friday night basically you go out with someone, not like oh I'll get a quick date in before I hang out with my friends.

Also I'm coming from an hour + away so 2 hour trip for a girl for an hour -hour an half seems kind of weak. Yes we may not get along but still.

I think her not originally telling me she had later plans was annoying. AM I overreacting. I get thats how chicks are and it only took a minute to find another girl to hang out with, but I kind of wanted to get to know this one.

Laugh it off, assure her you do want to meet her. She's obviously wondering if you're blowing her off. Be warm and assure her and make sure you schedule something properly.

IF she wasn't interested or you weren't interested you both wouldn't have made such effort so many times to meet.

But bear in mind that that much messing around is likely to kill it a bit, but that's not the end of the world. I've had many 'successes' with very shaky starts. Good luck

You're misreading this entirely. She's interested and felt you offering to take a raincheck on your plans was an indicator of disinterest.

Ya I know. It's just she cancelled twice ( for legit reasons). But I guess when she knows I am coming far to never mention she had to do something later annoyed me. Not because I need to capitalize on all her time but I planned my day thinking a thirty min time change wouldn't be an issue since her work is so flexible

So you're annoyed at a girl you never met to not acknowledge that you're travelling for an hour+...You have a busy lifestyle, cool. However you have to make time for girls if you ever want to meet them. You realize that, right? Jesus, just make time one night to meet her at least, and then see if you want to meet her again.

You've got two conflicting sides - you want to meet her, but you're not making time. Why? What's really up here?

Nah man I was ready to meet her three times she's the one who had to cancel not me. All I wanted to do was meet her 30 minutes past the time when she tells me oh she has later plans

Well then take the driver's seat now. Tell her "Look we've made quite a few plans to meet up but never followed through. It's about time so let's work this out. What does your schedule look like?"

I did this morning but so far no response