Hi everyone, I hope we learn a lot together from my situation and from the great advices coming.

-25 years old average guy after school started working and there are almost no girls on otherwise good workplace with potential
-old social circle mostly dried up, if invite for a meetup 0-1 person comes usually
-hate opening girls in shopping malls, bars and night clubs, became depressed because of it. hundreds of humiliating blowouts, online too, despite learning pickup. three one night stands overall but by now very sick of every cold approach
-at sports I suck and looked down a little, masculine guys who know each other and bigger than me and not the partying type, few girls, others girlfriends
-I dont know about other places, but language courses are very expensive in this country
-at salsa and other pair dancing 30 years+ mostly ugly and a few average looking women, at zumba 10-15 person groups with few average looking girls, at hiphop 15-18 years old girls who think like wtf this guy is doing here and attack me from big sets like how suck I dance, why is X talking with me, they become quiet when I appear etc
-joga 30-35 years old women who are average looking at best
-summer is coming and courses, sports, school and everything is empty of people, I can only cold approach -.-

You are probably doing much better than me, what are your advices?

You sound like the train wreck that Denzel Washington tries to stop.

Do yourself a favour and stop what you're doing with girls. Start gaming guys. Not to suck their dicks, but to befriend them. Do guys like talking to you? No? Why not? Are you uncool? Why are you uncool? Is it the way you dress? The way you talk? Are you afraid of standing up for yourself? Are you afraid to swear like Ned Flanders? Are you boring? Why are you boring? Are your stories entertaining? Do you even have any stories? Do you even lift, bro? Do you like sports? Why don't you play sports? Why can't you talk football or baseball? What do you like to do for fun that's also cool? What can you start doing that's cool?

All valid questions that once answered, well help you gain social proof among men.

Guys at work are usually 35+ years old.
At sport I'm on now, guys at my my age are the sporting and not the partying type, some are even proud of not drinking alcohol. Some fighting sport I went have about 30-40 years olds who are absolutely not partying guys.
Old friends moved, or having girlfriends.
At clubs with guys I'm welcome for some chat but its emberassing to follow them everywhere, I never did it. They were mostly university students. Where would it it lead to, I ask for their Facebook or phone number and wait for them after school and calling them where are they, or writing on Facebook every weekend if they are going somewhere? Then they would really think I'm a gay dude.

Fuck this useless forum, you buy every fucking product but know nothing. Good-bye!

well there's one thing you're good at - Giving up easy. have a look in this forum there are a shitload of people that want to change too. it takes time. there's no quick fix to this shit.

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what worked with the one night stands? rinse and repeat. Also PM me about online. Online is a goldmine, and one of the best, if not the best way to meet women IF you know what you are doing.

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