It's my 25th birthday on the 29th July and I have yet to fuck a girl, at least im not an oral virgin though. So starting tomorrow, I will be gaming at least once per day, 6 times a week (One day will be used for resting/recapping) I'll be practicing both daygame and nightgame (Although im a lot more comfortable and successful with daygame), I do have good knowledge of game but very little experience, however I really dont want to become a 25 year old virgin so I've got some good motivation there lol. Tomorrow I will be heading to my countries capital with my brother to attend an event so automatically I will be in all sorts of social situations and this will make a great opportunity to practice daygame. I will update this topic daily and discuss each day as I complete them. I am the quiet type of guy and a very enthusiastic video gamer and I understand to get a girl, one must be a sociable person. I do have knowledge and looks in the bag (That includes grooming) I just need experience now and lots of it which should lead to inevitable success. I also have confidence and ways of dealing with negativity thanks to poeticlyskuac's confidence program so im good to go, wish me luck out there in the field and ill keep you guys interested

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day: 1 (29th June) I went to the event as planned with my brother wearing my favorite orange hoody, orange + blue t-shirt, some peacocking gear including a dragon pendant and ring and an eagle ring too and standard jeans with nice runners, however I never slept the night before at all and actually was going to cancel the whole thing, but went anyway because I didn't want him disappointed. Got there and waited for his friends to arrive, had a coffee and water to keep me both alert and hydrated. I didn't talk much at first to anyone but a little later on during the outdoor disco I started opening up a little bit, at one point I playfully teased a taken female friend when she asked me to hold her drink by saying 'Thats gonna cost ya ' Good line I guess but I probably should have mentioned I was just kidding since she's my friend and she playfully snarled and mingled elsewhere (I'd never mention I was kidding to an actual target obviously)

The music started getting pretty good and I began dancing, im no professional but im not a disaster either, at one point 2 girls (HB 8 + HB 6/7) came up to me asking me for a drink of my water bottle (I had my hoody wrapped around my neck since it was hot) so I said 'Sure o3o' and let them drink some (Yeah, I know, I could have said/done something better there) The HB 8 was in a cop outfit and began mingling immediately, the other girl pecked me on the cheek straight afterwards which was rather confidence boosting since that doesn't happen too often to me. I went back to mingle and dance with my friends for a while and the new friends were all starting to get to know me too, I went back to the dance area and the HB 6/7 came up to me, hugged and pecked me on the cheek again, and then I kissed her on the lips but not very long, got no chance to get some tongue since she backed away and disappeared, but still, considering I havent kissed a girl at all in 5 years and that horrible dry-spell was FINALLY broken, I thought it was a terrific start to my one month challenge!

I only saw her again like once for the rest of the night (Didn't want to appear needy and chase her) The sudden accomplishment caused me to really open up and be very cheerful to my friends (Who I was still getting to know) So we hung out in the park for a while talking away about stuff and having a laugh (Quite unusual for me considering im a pretty shy person) The cops showed up and caught them with alcohol in the bags, poured them all into the grass and said they weren't supposed to drink there (I didn't have any on me) I practiced eye contact and showing interest with them (Something im not used to) and they seemed to be more comfortable with me (There was no forceful ego in me, wasn't trying to impress anyone)

We went back to the dance area and a HB9 came up to me, im not 100% what she said either but I sort of screwed up on this one...
HB9: Hey, I need to use the toilet can you... (Unclear what she said)
Me: *Asked her to repeat but still unclear, then she said something about her jacket, so I paused and said in not the most pleasant tone: 'What do you want me to do about it?'*
Whoops, should have kept my tone more friendly there, but I was confused and then she said 'Nevermind...' and wandered off. Darn, well mistake made, and learned from, what I probably should of said was 'Gee, so many people around here want me to do them favors! What are you gonna do for me then!? '

Later on that night I randomly put my hand out to high-five a passing HB8 to which she did high-five (Also unusual for me but the mood and newly aquired social energy and comfort was just too darn high, I couldn't help but be really happy and friendly) I also noticed my brother was talking to more new friends i've never seen before, seemed like the lesser attractive mixed group too but the mood was still high and before I even looked at them I said 'Hi guys! ' as if I knew them or something, kept the convo going for a little while asking about what one guy was wearing (He was a fan of a series) It ended well too and I took it as more social experience and I suppose opening practice.

Well, that's about it, the fact is I never actually opened at all, well not exactly anyway, I learned that sleep deprivation, like being drunk can eliminate the 'Think twice' habbit and make you just go with instinct, which is important because spontanity and living in the moment is needed to open, also learned it may be harder to game or be social when hungry, tired and bursting for a piss but not impossible, smiling, eye contact, listening, body language and voice tonality and speed are very useful. Achieved a LOT more than I hoped today but am now physically wrecked @_@

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 2: (30th June) I decided to make Sundays my official resting days (Unless it's a bank holiday which case it will be Monday)

Day 3: (1st July) Planned to daygame somewhere but didn't have anything arranged, didn't sleep well either so spent most of the day inside, I really didn't want to end the entire day without trying at all though especially since I just had my once a week rest so I decided to go out with my bro at about 9 o clock for a few drinks. Litterly forced myself to go out even though I was feeling very lazy, I thought to myself 'Well I wont get any closer if I don't try at all, lets see what happens anyway' Definately not the best night i've had but i did practice eye contact and smiling on my brother (So i can do it to girls im attracted to) did some body language and learned I should write up a list of interesting stories so I wont run out of things to say...like he did, it didn't take too long until both of us were stuck for anything interesting to say and the mood to talk to people didn't last at all

So we had a rather average/annoying night but at least I got some practice in, he also brought up a topic which sort of offended me and I went quiet for a while, when we moved pubs, the bad mood was still there but I managed to bring it back up a bit when he stopped yammering on about Skyrim. (Honestly couldn't give a crap even though im an avid gamer) I didn't talk to any girls at all, I dont seem to be used to the social scene just yet (It's not like I ever see anyone else picking them up anyway) One of those nights that might have 'seemed' like a total wasted effort but no...I managed to spot a lot of mistakes both of us were doing. Sometimes it's better to just do the listening and avoid topics that offend (Money, medical conditions or religion for example) and keep the conversation interesting and exciting, and to start learning about those open-ended questions i've heard about, my brother definately hasn't got the greatest voice tonality or most interesting life to talk about so maybe his yammering brought my mood down?

There is the saying 'We play, because the nights we lose, are the nights we learn the most' and I could certainly apply that to this night. Although I didn't get the result I was hoping for it doesn't discourage me, it's just a notification that I need a little more work in the storytelling section. I will be up early tomorrow to collect a package and sort out another errand, who knows who ill bump into? Tomorrow will give me the opportunity to approach anyone I want and practice some openers.

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 4: (2nd July)

Woke up not feeling my best, dizzy, sore throat and runny nose, seemed to have developed the flu (Might explain the lower mood last night, seem to happen right after finishing a bag of chips, sometimes eating at the chipper makes me ill) I had to go out and collect a package and went by bike because I didn't want them closing and here I am typing this up at (14:02) I've still got a few things to do today that may involve meeting more people and practicing but im certainly not in my best physical frame (Don't plan on kissing girls when sick but hugs are fine) There's no such thing as 'you HAVE to be your best to succeed' it does increase your chances yes but doesn't make it impossible, in otherwords, just because you didn't sleep well, forgot to excersise or have been diet neglectant doesn't mean you can't pick up chicks, so this could be an opportunity to prove that theory correct (I seem to be turning into an oppotimist here lol)

So I will be going back out on by foot this time to pay some bills and send back a faulty item, the very least i'll be practicing is saying simple 'How are ya?'s (Quite common way of saying 'hello' here) and of course smiling (Thats very important) I do believe that moods are quite contagious, if you're in a good mood and show it, chances are that person will reflect it (Unless they've got shit going on in their world and cant help but be miserable) I think after this is done and since im sick today, I will stay in afterwards and start writing up those interesting story topics and open-ended questions and memorising them. I will update the rest of they day later (Before bedtime)

17:38 Went out to send off the faulty item I received, practicing manners, curtousity (Door holding), body language and posture, opening up, a little banter, maintaining eye contact and of course smiling. It would seem that people really do like guy's who do the above a lot, it might seem a bit gay at times but being open and friendly is a trait that general society gives them (And they seem to get a lot of hugs, even kisses and sometimes even sex from girls, and I believe that's why, because they're open) I had a nice friendly chat with a poker buddy at the post office, normally I wouldn't chat, at all, that how quiet and shy I was, also had a nice and open convo with the woman at the post office (I suppose you COULD call her a HB 6 lol but somewhere in her 30s) Also had a luagh at one point from a little joke I made. On my way home I spotted a couple of attractive girls (HB 8/9s) but because I had to cross a road I was right behind them, I had no idea how old they were either but I assumed they were minors, I ended up walking past them and saying a friendly 'How are ye? ' they smiled and said 'Hey' back. Perhaps maybe I should have stopped and chatted for a while and of course found out their age while I was at it but I was sort of in a hurry and covered in sweat from the heat, maybe I talked myself out of that one but it's not like I dismissed them completely.

Basically, you CAN be a nice person and alpha too, but they main thing is to be a 'strong' person, women are attracted to strength and hate weakness. Generally when people see a 'nice' person, they assume he's weak too so its important to know when to step up and dis-allow people to take advantage of that. Nobody likes a bully (Women might find them 'attractive' but not actually 'like' them) and nobody likes a squirt either. This day isn't over yet by the way, going to play some poker with a few buddies at their house (Most likely an all-male group unfortunately) but again, who knows who ill bump into on the way? All this practice really is shutting off my shyness completely and oiling my rusted social skills, I should mention too while im here that one of my brothers friends mentioned that it was awesome meeting me, something I dont hear too often but it's great to get that kind of feedback for my efforts

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 5: (3rd July)

(14:54) Still sick from that darn flu but im doing my best to sort it out (Had to cancel a planned meet-up with current friends and potential new ones from sleeping in and being sick) However I got a phone call earlier from a friend inviting me to tag along to a poker tourney, it's a cheap buy in but lots to be won so I might meet some faces at the casino (Some of the dealers there are freaking hot! ) I don't plan on doing much today, I might go shopping and say hi and converse with people but I think I will write up those interesting stories and memories them today, I heard much like possitive affirmations which are used to improve your mood during a negative mindset, memorising stories will ensure one never runs out of anything interesting to say

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 6: (July 4th)

Still sick, this is a freaking horrible time to get the fecking flu too >> Anyway ill recap last night (Can't seem to edit my previous post, the button disappeared!) I went to the casino with a few friends with my favorite hoody outfit on to play poker as planned. We got there early so we spent some time wandering around the city for a while, passed numerous girls on the way, again I practiced smiling and eye contact and said 'How are ye? ' to a passing group of HB 8/9s and they were like 'Heeey ' My buddy then said to me "Thats how you do it man! " We went back to the casino a little later.

The dealers were pretty hot alright but I noticed they weren't paying much attention to me even though I was giving them eye contact once in a while (Perhaps they were just focused on the game?) I wanted to ask one of them about her hair, if she was born with orange hair but didn't have a follow-up for that. I did practice the usual confidence stuff on a waitress though and she smiled back. I got knocked out of the game quite early, both of my friends were still playing and the only way for me to get home without paying a taxi was to have one of them give me a lift, I didn't want to gamble my money away either so I decided to go out for a walk. It was kind of dark and in the middle of the city.

I was walking along tailing 2 dudes (Not too closely) and as they were passing a mixed group (Mostly female) one of them was like 'Will you kiss (Girls name)?' to the guys in front of me, they just walked on, as I was walking past them I said my usual 'How are ye? ' but they didn't seem to notice me o.o I think maybe it was the attire I had chosen that night, it might look good on me but it doesn't seem to attract people, in fact, it may repel them instead, people don't seem to like a guy in a hoody so I guess ill be wearing shirts and good shoes for the rest of the month. Confidence + hoody outfit seems to scare the fuck out of people actually XD Some of the beggars looked at me and probably thought to themselves (Oh shit, this guys going to attack me o.o) Im not a very stocky guy either but I suppose clothes and confidence do make the man, lesson learned the hard way again through trial and error, switch to something more formal and inviting (I've had most of my success with women in my long sleeved white shirt and jeans actually)

Anyway back to today, not sure what ill be doing or not sure what to do but I think I will start writing up those interesting stories (Even though I already said I would) I have nothing planned tonight and im still a bit sick. There is a pub crawl on Friday night i've always considered trying though, hopefully ill be better by tomorrow

22:20 Okay, havent actually written any stories yet but I did have a rest with a notepad and a pen and allowed my mind to wander, I came up with about 30 interesting topics. There were a number of things I came up with that I simply didn't mention in case they give a negative impression to the listener but the main thing is, to write down as MANY as you can think of, re-cap them and cross off ones that might have a negative impact, here's a few examples

Accomplishments:

Bungee Jumping, getting a tattoo, getting a piercing, (Example) of the year award, passing a course/big test, winning a big tournament, seeing your favorite comedian/actor/singer live, conquering a fear (Spiders, death, snakes ect)

Nasty experiences:

Almost died/got injured, getting in big trouble in school for something illegal (Im sure most of us have at some point), cat escaping from a faulty cage moments before getting to the vet, having to pay a fine for a family member who forgot his train ticket

Unusual/non-generic/interesting stories:

Making a video and watching to going viral on the internet, meeting up with online friends for the first time, moving away for the first time, breeding animals

Other:

Drunk nights (We've all had them im sure), kicking a bad habit/addiction or going through a process of improving yourself, experiences with other girls (First kiss ect...dont mention break-ups, this might be a dodgy topic and will have to be thought of carefully)

There's a few ideas/examples anyway, the point is avoid topics such as video games (She wont know what you're talking about unless she's played it) almost anything virtual should be avoided with conversing (You could say 'Have you see the (Example) movie?', if she says no, switch topics, if she says yes it might be okay to talk a little bit about it especially if she's interested) and always avoid things that may offend or upset the listener (Religion, money, losing a family member ect)

Now that I have interesting story topics jotted, it's time to go into detail on them, like a play writer, spend time writing them up, make them as interesting as possible, re-hearse them and before you know it you'll always have something interesting to talk about It takes time and effort but surely you wont run into the 'I ran out of things to say to her' scenario again

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 7 (6th July)

Nothing special happened, just wasn't feeling right so I just stayed in the whole day reading stories about pick up (Field + lay reports and other problems guys happen to run into) Quite fun and encouraging actually knowing fully well there are other guys out there who've have similar experiences

Day 8 (7th July)

Ah its good to be better So yeah I sort of just rested all day yesterday but it was just what I needed, sickness is gone and I feel fantastic and now I can't WAIT to go out. I really feel like its a lot easier to approach now knowing full well if ones approach is good, 95% of the time he will get a positive response (I'd settle with those odds on anything ) It's important to wear the right attire, SMILE!!!, have good body posture and use body language, usually your arms when you're talking to sort of 'act' things out. So I will be approaching tonight and not actually expecting to bring a girl home (Although I wont say no to it XD) but the main point about tonight is to metaphorically send this hero off on multiple small quests he can handle well and rack up as much exp and level up as fast as possible so he can face tougher and tougher scenarios and challenges. So the only way for me to get disappointed tonight, is to not approach at all, I will start with easy people (People im comfortable saying 'How are ye?' too anyday of the week) so I can build up the momentum and good mood so I can approach nicer targets, a kiss-close tonight would be freaking fantastic and im sure I could get that at this stage

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 9 (7th July)

08:47 Yes, I did go out and no I havent slept yet lol. Again not the most exciting night but I think I got a little bit out of it, I really need to work on AA and approaching, its seems impossible to do if she's gorgeous, it's night-time and you're by yourself. Do you think a clean joke everyone would get is a clever opener? Anyway I went out to the city at about 11PM (I live in a town and unfortunately there's not a single club here) When I got on the bus this drunk dude started talking to me so I used it as an opportunity to improve my social skills (I'd normally completely ignore people like that but I have changed), kept the convo going longer than I thought even though he did most of the talking and ended with a handshake and exchanging names. Got to my favorite club but it was closed, strange, anyway I went on to find another one that I like, that was also closed which caused me to check both my phone calender and the time, 11:25PM Saturday, hmm...so i went on to find another club and sure enough I managed to get into this one, it set me back €10 and I did have to show my ID too (I look rather young for my age) I told the bouncers about the other two clubs and one of them mentioned that the first one had closed for good, yikes, that was a nice club.

Went in, paid admittance whilst smiling at the women in charge of it, got a smile back from one of them, went to get a drink for myself since I was kind of thirsty, that took about 20 minutes, bar service was slow tonight and they didn't serve cocktails (I like sex on the beach) and they were also out of Budweiser, so I settled for a pint of Heineken. Had the urge to approach girls but I choked (Like Eminem did) completely forgot what to do so I went to chill at the comfy seats not far from the dance floor, sipped my pint and made myself comfortable, spreaded my legs and rested my arms on the tops of the chairs (Looks very masculine ) 2 HBs came out from the smoking area and sat close to me, I just kept a happy mood but found it hard to even look at them o.o (One of them was very over-weight anyway) Two more HBs came to sit down too, one across from me on a stool and the other next to me, right under where my arm was resting, she seemed comfortable sitting there. Again I found it hard to make any sort of contact with them at all It's like ive fallen into a bad habit of merely sitting there looking good may lure them in, it doesn't. Unfortunately that's sort of how I got my first kiss, never even said a word to her until after we kissed o3o

I finished my pint and went to get a coke and decided i'd enjoy the music and practice dancing (I wanted to dance anyway) Kept the smile on my face and was having a good time (Not just acting one out) I did take occasional breaks whenever I got a stitch. Anywho this guy, considerably bigger than me have a bit of an attitude problem, I was merely just dancing and observing some of the talent there and watching how other guys dress, dance and pick up girls, anyway he slides up next to me and tries to push me away with the side of his arm, I refused to change my stance, he started pushing harder, I pushed back and he turned, looked at me and shouted something offensive (Couldn't hear it because of the music) I just kept dancing and smiling and gave him the cold shoulder. Anyway a girl comes towards me and litterly pushes me away from him, I gave her a 'Hey! Hands off the merchandise! ' look and playfully brushed her hair, it happened to be the dudes girl (Or relative or something) and I could tell he was giving me a veeeery dirty look even though I continued dancing and having fun. I figured he was afraid of me and didn't want a potential threat near his girl, seemed a little too aggressive to not to afraid of me (Aggression = fear) So I just kept my cool and figured this douche had woken up on the wrong side of his mom that morning and dis-allowed him to change my mood (I guess I gained a bit of experience with dealing with AMOGs or bullies) I wanted to go up behind him, flick him on the ear with my finger and laugh but I let that temptation go but it's great to know im not afraid of bullies anymore

A short while later a girl (HB 6) slipped and fell on the floor, I offered to help her up but she didn't take it (Security covered it) but at least I tried to make a physical connection (I suppose you could call it?) I got one more drink and continued dancing for a while before getting tired and leaving. Went for a walk around the city for some fresh air, nothing special happened but I did head back to the entrance of the club where everyone was coming out (Closing time) and chatting away and mingling outside, so everything could be heard. Cops arrived to pick up a dude under arrest, no idea what for and thought about using that situational opener on a group (About 6) of various HBs, again I got cold feet. I sat on the rail smiling away, chewing gum, relaxing and listening to my ears which sounded like pacemakers of a dead guy, this small red hair HB6 came up next to me and said 'Heeey ' to me, I turned to her, smiled and asked "Did ya have a good time in there? " I did feel the body language coming seemingly naturally, it was unconcious, didn't have to remind myself to do it, she replied 'Nah, we were at another club (Club name)' "Oh yeah" *Puts my arm around her to pull her closer to me so I could hear her better* "I love that place :3" Unfortunately this nice little convo was cut short when I noticed her boyfriend immediately but slowly remove my arm from her [She's mine dude] "Oh right, I didn't know you guys were together So where you from?" (She seemed to go completely silent for the rest of he night, I must have spooked her or come on too strongly) [*Mentions same town as my one*] "Cool me too " and so on. I did manage to turn a potentially ugly scenario into a pleasant convo, he did kiss her right in front of me but I didn't seem to mind, I was happy enough simply gaining experience. I forgot to get their names and make eye contact but I did keep an open mind and posture

That was about it really, I tried to be nice and open to everyone I talked to but I noticed particularly the males were a little unresponsive tonight (Perhaps maybe I act too friendly to them?) I think ill change being too nice to being cool, open and somewhat nice. No kiss close and I clearly need to work on approaching so to get better at that I will practice it in the daytime particularly to the lesser attractive girls and work my way up. Tonight wasn't a waste, I did gain experience in some various scenarios. Learned tonight that I may be coming on too strongly with girls before they're attracted to me so obviously I have to talk with them for a while first and make that emotional connection. Maybe im smiling too much and coming off as a little creepy but thats what they did teach me to do in bootcamp

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 9 (7th July) (Continued)

Sunday is the day im referring to here, woke up very late and didn't look my best either, in fact im typing this up in the early hours of Monday. So yeah, Sunday is my resting/recapping day and that's what I did, spent a few hours reading some stories about PU over various parts of the internet, also typing in any questions I had into Google and reading the results. Stories do seem to be pretty interesting, particularly ones where shit gets heavy at a certain point but have a happy ending. (Because EVERY audience goes through struggles in life and will always want to know how the character manages to over-come it) When I look at my previous posts, I suppose you might be able to call them inexperienced mis-adventours but I see them as a work in process, much like drawing, PU is going to take a lot of work, time, energy, persistance, practice and of course learning to get good at. We all, even the pros start off with laughable drawings/experiences but those who keep at it and are always, ALWAYS improving all the time, become masters, as Einstein once said 'The only way you can fail is by giving up' Never, ever surrender, Spartan style maybe lol. To be honest this whole experience so far, although I havent gotten the results I want yet, has been quite fun and im happy that I pushed myself into it, knowing full well I am getting somewhere with picking up girls, maybe slowly but definately surely. It does seem to be getting easier and easier actually, perhaps im getting stronger or more experienced/familiar with it? The first step was certainly the hardest one (As with everything, take my bungee jumping experience for example XD) I've got exactly 3 weeks left to get laid before I hit 25, im going to do my best to try to make that happen and if it doesn't ill keep going anyway and keep on improving and getting better, until I do. Just because I don't make it doesn't mean I should quit, quitters lose and losers quit and just because ill keep going after 25 doesn't mean ill start slacking now, gotta keep the momentum going at all times. I suppose ill keep myself motovated somehow, ah! I've got it! If I get laid before 25 I will treat myself to a nice hot holiday, have not been abroad in over a decade, thats good motovation I wonder who actually reads my posts anyway and I wonder even more what they're thinking, if ye guys want to say something, good or bad by all means go ahead, im all ears

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 10 (8th July)

Another pretty quiet day, my sleeping pattern has been seriously disrupted so it's hard to get up early at all. A few hours passed and I hadn't made my dinner yet so I decided 'Ill go out, get food and practice being open with people I bump into' and that's what I did. Didn't wear a hood or a shirt, I was topless indoors sweating buckets as it was so I went out with just a t-shirt, it was about 22:45. It seems that I can take control of a potentially ugly scenario and turn it into a positive one using confidence alone. As I was walking down a short hill toward the town I heard female voices, they were sitting on a nearby bench talk away (On closer inspection I noticed they weren't really my type (Mid-30s mom types) and sure enough they had a 12 year old kid with them, and a dog, who immediately barked at me as I was making my way passed them. The dog approached and I looked at it for no more than 3 seconds before focusing on where I was going, it stopped approaching (There's certain things you can do to a dog to assure it that you're not afraid of it) I turned to the small crowd and said 'Oh she's lovely ' and everyone began laughing. The old me would have been completely different, would have probably walked on in a bad mood or got angry with the animal but it is clear that confidence will ALWAYS beat aggression

I kept walking on, the town was pretty quiet tonight as it was a Monday and I was thinking of entering a chipper I knew a girl who worked there (HB 5) that I was going to practice with, she wasn't there as I was walking passed a window, there was a very drunk bloke right beside me who probably thought I was staring at him but I said:

'How are ya tonight lad? '
"Don't go in there at all boy"
'Whats in there? o.o'
"Everything"
'Razor-blades and stuff? '
"Yeah heh"
'Alright lad, have a good night '

Goes to show that judging people really is a mistake, just because one is intoxicated, begging for money or even angry at you doesn't mean you should dismiss them as unreasonable, they are still people and deserve respect. So I guess I did earn a bit of people skills experience and handling potentially messy situations as well as practicing confidence, it really is making a difference with how I see the world and it's inhabitants. Im not sure what im going to be doing tomorrow, sleeping pattern is disrupted so if i stay up all night tonight ill probably be asleep at about 3 tomorrow (Another wasted chance at daygame) Hopefully I can get some shut eye early tonight, I do have things to do tomorrow so I will be out anyway, hopefully well-rested (Although it's not a prequestity)

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 11: (9th July)

Didn't sleep very well but I managed to get up early and do most of what needed to be done today (Lets call it necessary life maintenance) It's quite warm here so I went out in shorts, t-shirt, sunglasses and sandals. A few people opened up to me today (Mostly ones i've opened up to in the past) but I just wasn't feeling it in me today, I also noticed some bug on my leg that caused it to bleed, hungry bugger I went for a swim because I hadn't gone in like 2 weeks, im just not feeling myself today really, might be the amount of sleep I got that caused it, seem to have temporaraly fallen back to my quiet shy self. The day isn't over yet though, still got one more necessary thing to do and it's not even mid-day yet, anything could happen

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 12 (10th July)

Things are looking brighter, quite litterly and not just the weather mind you, well today so far I just went out for a walk and some lunch, said 'How are ye?' to some passing HBs (Really starting to get used to this ) and came home and had a chat with my bro, tomorrow the weather is going to be even hotter but here's the good news, he's bringing over 3 of his friends to hang out with us (1 male 2 females) the females being a 22 YO gay and taken HB9 (Perfect for any sort of practice as long as it's nothing too physically intimate of course) the other is the gold though, a HB 9, straight 25 YO, i've only met this girl once but she's fucking hawt! o.o She wont date my brother or his friend because of her standards, they're both too young for her, she seems interested in me though Well the only time I have met her was in my own house, I was playing video games and went up to the kitchen for a drink (My bro had a house party the night before and the two of them stayed the night, not intimately though) so she comes up with my bro for some coffee (insomnia) wearing a cute green t-shirt with Kermet the frogs head on it, she's a stunning brunette. We had a short convo, small talk really but I noticed her tattoos on her arms and reached out to have a closer look (Physical connection) and I asked her about them (Stars tattoos) I don't remember what she said about them but I showed her my Leo tattoo on my lower left wrist and she said 'Oh, you're a Leo are ya? ' (IOI, zodiac compatible crap girls like?) and that was it, we both went back to the seperate bedrooms with our drinks

My bro a few days later asks me

'What do you think of Andrea? o3o'
"Uhhh who? o.o"
'The girl that was over a few nights ago?'
"Oh yeah, why you asking me that? "
'Just what do you think of her?'
"Fwooo...she's fucking hot man o3o"
'I think she likes you actually, wont go out with me because im 19 she's 25, but she seems to like you though '
"Oh...cool o3o"

So yeah, she's coming over tomorrow with Kate (The HB9 lesbian, don't worry, she's open-minded not the androphobic man-hating type) to hang out with me, my bro and his friend. Anything could happen too but the very least I will definately be practicing pick-up on her and mild pick-up on Kate (Of course bring her back to earth if anything goes far because she is taken), we might even be going to the beach together. Ill see if I can build a bit of rapport with her, at least i've touched her before so that shouldn't be too hard to repeat. If im really lucky tomorrow I might just be posting my first ever lay report, who knows, ill go for what I want and watch her for hints on when to move in for a kiss or back off for a while Today aint over yet by the way, ill let you guys know if anything happens later

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 12 (11th July)

Aww gumballs! Well the male friend showed up alright, the female friend who went with him was actually another girl I barely knew (Kayla, 19 YO straight, taken HB6) The girl I was really hoping to show up didn't come at all (I noticed she has a seriously disturbed sleeping pattern, she didn't wake up until 3PM!) So I spent the day playing video games with my bro and his friends (the two friends were both dating actually) but I do find that I find it much easier to look girls in the eye now, at least the lesser attractive ones, was a time I couldn't do it at all. Also practice building some good rapport with her although it was pretty easy since everyone was a gamer. We got pretty drunk and went out to get some food at the chipper, while we were eating the HB6 said something about being a guy and not a girl (She really is a girl lol) and then I said 'I guess there's only one way to know for sure! ' and reached my hand out as if to take off her top and check for breasts but something in my stomach screamed 'HOOOOOLD ON A MINUTE! Bad idea!' and im glad that happened actually, would have lost the friendship right there and then o.o; Yeah nothing much really happened afterwards, just drank some more and talked for a while, I went to bed early because I was wrecked (Woke up hungover at 5:30AM) Some social experience and more comfort talking to girls i suppose

Day 13 (12th July)

Its about 3PM now, nothing special at the moment and im not sure I should go out tonight, drank a lot the night before but im seriously thinking of hitting up a local pub and pulling any HB 5-7 and just bring her home and fuck her, I noticed the lesser attractive ones always show interest in me actually (I rate myself an 7-9) I know i should probably go for nicer girls but I feel im not ready for those yet, maybe just stick with the 5-7s and gain some experience with girls, and hopefully in bed, who knows? I know i certainly have the confidence for those ones o.o

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 14 (13th July)

Just went out to do some shopping, said 'How are ye?' to a few passing HB 8/9s one of them said hey back. Before I actually began shopping I decided i'd go and get an ice-cream to cool off a bit so went to the nearby shop and asked the HB7 behind the counter for one, she thought I was referring to the machine but I told her I wanted one from the flavor selection so I talked to the blonde and blue eyed HB8, smiling and asking for a large. She asked:

'Which one?'
"A large cone "
'I mean flavor'
"Oh, uuuumm...hmm, whats that one?" (Points at one)
'*Gives name of it*'
"Yeah im gonna give that one a try and ill have some chocolate too please"
'Its hot out isn't it?' (IOI? Reflecting positive energy?)
"Deadly, I noticed too that they always complain *Moving arms* about the cold during the winter, the summer comes along and the weather is nice and hot and they complain about that too "
'Haha '
*Paying for ice-cream*
"Cheers love "
'Have a great day ^^'

That was a nice little convo, these little convos validates the fact that if you approach a girl properly, you'll always get a positive response, I suppose I got a bit of C&F exp there. So I went to the supermarket, with the ice-cream which made shopping more difficult one-handed and as I picked up a basket the top one got stuck with a handle of the one below it, as I was trying to get it out, another blonde HB8 employee comes to help and pulls the handle down allowing me to take out the top basket

'Ah, I noticed they don't want to be apart, it must be love '
"Hahaha XD"
'Thanx '

A little later as I was paying for the stuff a coupon was acting up with the machine, a red-haired HB6 employee comes up:

'Ill sort that out for you o3o'
"Cheers, I noticed coupons are quite tricky with these machines "
'Yeah heh ...there you go '
"Thanks love "

So yeah, I suppose I got some good opening exp today, I seem to be pretty good with humor/banter and find it easier and easier to talk to women. I might go out tonight if I have the energy, I don't fancy going to the city although there's no local nightclubs in my town I do know of a particular pub though, my ex frequents that place, I might drop in and say hello to her and her BF (Im on good terms with all of my exs at the moment) She'll be easy to talk to and I could gain some exp with her, only drawback being that particular pub there wont be many HBs in there so I might hit up another pub afterwards, deciding if i'll go solo or with my brother too although ill probably bring my bro, just hope he doesn't talk about Skyrim again XD

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Day 15 (14th July)

Went out last night with my bro (Finding just going out for the heck of it increasingly easier) and met a lot of familiar faces (Quite unusual) As me and my bro were having a drink at the bar the girl behind the counter seemed like she wanted to talk to us, seemingly pretty badly actually, she was freaking nice too, HB9, brunette. So we just had a bit of small-talk, did the weather complaining thing on her too and took a guess at where she was from

'Hang on, lemme guess where you're from...Spain? '
"No, Italy " *Said something about pizzas*
'I love pasta o3o'
"Hell yeah! "

I know, short convo, but can you see the difference compared to this?

'Are you from Spain?'
"No, Italy" *Pizza talk*
'I eat pasta 3 times a week' (Boring, ego-talk, tone too serious, implying that you're moral and healthy in the hopes of impressing her that way, beta-shite...remember to be the cool guy, not her daddy)
"Oh...cool..."

It really isn't 'what' you say, but how you say it, keep it light, positive, cool, confident and funny, that's generally how most people like being talked to. If you do it right you can litterly say almost anything to her and never offend her, if you really create the right mood between you you can go and say kinky things, like a few funny stories of what you've done with ex gf (I could tell of one where me and an ex of mine got locked in a mall while fooling around and setting off the alarm XD Awkward calling the emergency services after you've just dry-humped her) However it's important to loosen her up first, you obviously don't pounce on a girl and say something like 'Heeeey, what color underwear ya wearing? ' That comes later after you've made those emotional and physical connections If you're too friendly, that's what you'll end up as, her blooming friend If you're too cocky you might blow her off completely or fuck her once if you do it right but she probably wont want you again, if you get the right mix, both flirty and friendly, chances are you'll end up in a relationship with her. Frankly, I don't mind fucking her a few times and just being friends afterwards, want to remain single for now but get more (s)ex-perience with women before committing to one

Anyway back on track, the rest of the night was pretty much cut short, got drunk pretty quickly, tired initially and 3 pints is all it took, was basically too hammered to seduce or practice it for the rest of the night, broke down crying about an ex at one point and woke up with a moderate hangover. I do feel im getting better and better the more I do this though, there was a time i'd piss off people when I should be just enjoying myself but that hasn't happened in a very long time, I can seemingly open up and have fun at times (Not all the time mind you, havent made it too much of a habit yet) Besides, even approaching and practicing on ugly girls can be somewhat motivating, think about it, they love it when a nice guy approaches them, im not saying you have to sleep with them lol but they'd feel happy and you'd feel happy knowing you made them happy too. Girls can't seem to stand it when im too quiet actually, I don't know why scientifically but it could be just me, perhaps they want to know me or something? Maybe there's something about me thats unique they find fascinating from the usual guys. I have strongly refrained from becoming too generic and sticking with what I believe in, and doing what 'I' enjoy and not hoping to impress, at the same time doing what I enjoy in style too, nobody likes a freak afterall, girls want that cool guy, and I have become that guy, now it's all up to me and go and get them

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"