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Why would Sexaddict suggest being polite and avoiding rejection? I've been a rude and cocky asshole and women seem to dig it...
Also, he states he goes mostly for day 2s.
This doesn't seem like good advice to me, but then again perhaps this is his particular style. I myself don't care for being polite or whether I am getting rejected. So will this correspond with the type of women I get?
Their is a reason it's called game. When I suggest to always be polite, I am talking about the approach and building comfort stage. Please don't get this confused with the entirety of my game. It is merely a step in the process.
All women have some what of a barrier, some are higher then others, but they all have them. I've found in my experience, the best way to break down the wall is through charm and being a gentleman. I wouldn't even consider this the "game" yet. More so, getting your foot in the door. Once your target is dis-armed you can then apply your game. My personal style after the target is disarmed. Is cocky, funny, and always sexual.
Being sexual alone can also work, if there is enough initial attraction. The thing about being sexual is that it already shows a huge amount of confidence, and gives off a bad boy image. Women love this, especially if they are attracted to you.
As for "rejection" Who wants to get rejected? Does anyone set out to get rejected. Of course you want to avoid rejection. It doesn't mean you should take personal offense when it happen.
When I first wrote my posts, I wasn't very good at articulating my thought process, I am hoping I am much better now.
This forum seems to embrace rejection, and for learning purposes, I can see it's uses. But! this doesn't mean it should be your mindset. There is way to much emphasis on this forum about quick pick up, approaching any woman you want or see without any thought. To me, this isn't seduction, its a numbers game.
A good pick up artist creates a positive experience with any target, regardless if there is attraction or not, regardless if the target is sexually available or not. Regardless if they are being rejected. If you do this right, you will never truly get rejected. In fact, it is the target that will be missing out.
There is so much going on even before you approach a woman, attracting behaviors, sub communications, approach invites, and approach blockers. If you have no skill in observing and locating available women, you're not a pick up artist, your a pick up monkey. ( IMO)
When I speak of avoiding rejection, I am speaking of avoiding the automatic response most women will give "ANY" man that approaches, just out of defense, or the wall, or habit alone.
Pick up isn't that hard, if you follow the rules of human interaction.
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