I was talking to a HB8 on Friday, went fucking great, I charmed her whole group and she was looking for my attention a little so I talked to her. We flirted and I got down on one knee and proposed. The whole smoking area started applauding (social proof etc.), she was laughing her ass off, I took her number and we said we'd meet.

She asked for my FB through text, I gave it, mentioned a meet up a couple of times and no real response, I think by this time i've lost momentum. What did I do wrong? I don't really care about rescuing my chances with this girl, I would just like some advice.

Last night I was flirting with a HB9, lots of flirting. She added me on fb that night, I don't have her number. Need some advice on this one, as I am leaving the country on Sunday and by the time im back she'll be back in California. I will be meeting up with her and her friend group on fri, but I would like to meet up alone before that. Should I ask? If so, in what way? Build some comfort followed by asking or just go BOOM into it.

Need some advice asap please:)

Just ask. Building comfort through facebook/text/etc. is a myth. It stems from a manifestation of fear of rejection. You should have built the comfort etc. already when you guys met. Just ask her out.

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With the first girl, you might have been too pushy by "mentioning a meetup a couple of times" you should of tried to build attraction through text game first, showing her you're not needy with delayed reponses and being the last one to stop texting. And then when an event or something was going on, or a day you wanted to go out for a drinks, you could of said, "i'm going here "....", at this day and time, you should totally come hang out with me there" this will obviously work better if the event is something she can't say no to, or you have a general idea of her schedule so that you can pick a time she would be free.

As far as the second girl, simply tell her you will be leaving town soon, and that you guys should totally hang out together and grab a drink before you do.

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