I'm 31 but 12 years ago I met a girl when she was 13 and I was 19. We were attracted to each other but didn't act on it for obvious reasons and we didn't keep in touch. We agreed to revisit when she was 18 but she moved overseas at 16. She is now an actor/model/dancer HB9

She comes home twice a year on holiday. We reconnected on one of those trips when she showed up at my 30th birthday. We went out a couple times while she was here, and again the next time she visited. Both times she had a BF. First time she told me she had one and they were breaking up, the next time she came she never told me I only found out cause he friend mentioned it in front of me. She told me they broke up about a week after she got back home.

She contacts me a lot from overseas via text and is here on holiday now, and is single.

Since being here she texts me almost once an hour, always wants to hang out with me (dinner, movies, her family gatherings etc) and she asked me to go with her on a 5 day ski trp with her and her Mum but I turned that down. I figured I can't progress this with her Mum around and I don't want to slip into the friend zone further.

Question is, am I actually in the friend zone considering this is the first time we've hung out since she's been single? Does the time I've spent in touch with her "as friends" while she's been abroad count against me?

She's coming on a road trip with me and some friends when she gets back, wtf do I do!?

Any advice is appreciated! Usually I would just hit on her and see what happens but considering how long this has been in the making I'm being cautious.

The only thing thats going to solidify your spot in the friendzone is being cautious. Thats the reason guys end up in the friend zone in the first place. If you want to score this; act as if you didn't know her all that time and hit on her like you would any other girl. Treat her any different and she'll sense it and things won't work out the way you want them to. The difference between guys who get friendzoned and guys who don't is the guys who don't aren't afraid to take the risk.

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