I have worked in door to door sales and recently I have applied one of my sales strategies to my game. In sales the assumption is that everyone wants to buy the product if convinced properly. I have had costumers who will say no countless times, in spite of this I was able to enter countless of homes and sell security systems.

When it comes to game, my frame is that I am selling myself to all women. With enough persuading and undaunted persistence every girl will buy the product. So I flirt with all women, wether I am just being friendly or want more.

I come across as having a weakness for all women, for which I do not apologize. Whenever I make a move women will either give in (easy sale), resist and the give in (hard sale), not give in but come back from more. I always come across as not being able to control myself, which lets me get away with all my advances. All the time I'm always building sexual tension which flatters women, and leaves them coming back for more.

Pros: projecting a very dominant and masculine identity, major social proof because many women like and enjoy being around you, lastly it lowers women's defended because you appear so weak to their influence/presence.

Cons: "no means no" situations, which doesn't need explaining. (Don't be a idiot). At times you will come across as a dog (embody the dog persona, being known as a weak womanizer makes it easier to escalate, and the reputation will actually draw women to you)

Well you know all about selling but it seams pretty clear that you already have some problems with women.
You have a great inner game but you should tune it to perfection.

You shouldn't go to women thinking: They already want me, cuz they might don't, that's what happen when you knock on a door and you receive a NO before you even say anything, this is because people don't want to buy you anything, they already know that your products are expensive, low quality, no warranty, no support, etc. door selling is the worse service a person can get (only my opinion, but is not this what we are talking about).

And what women thing when a man approaches them is: He only wants to fuck me and dump me after because he got what he wanted, i don't want a person like him! Or: I'm not interested on him cuz he don't have what i want\need.

So what you do when you are selling door to door? You try to make the other persons thinking that you are not there to sell them anything, so you don't start your conversations with: I'm here to sell you this awesome alarm, no! You start with something like: Hello my friend, are you having a nice day? I'm here to demonstrate you this product (see you didn't say: I'm here to sell you this), bla bla bla...

What i mean is, when you approach a woman, all you want to make sure is that: I hope she doesn't think I'm interested on fucking her to close the business, I'm just here to socialize because i'm a sociable person. (see it's a different and positive perspective, which you do in your sales).

And after your selling demonstration, what you do? You start to talking about prices right? But you don't say: "Ok enough of bullshit, this going to cost you 5000$, pay now!" What you do? You escalate and you make sure that the other person is comfortable with what you are saying.
So in other words: You have to at some point with a woman, make her realize that you really want to close business with her (kiss her, fuck her whatever), so you escalate until you achieve what you want.

In short: You don't go to a woman showing interest, you go with no weapons and as a sociable person, after awhile you demonstrate what you are (your product) and then you should start to do your inner game (thinking that they already want you) and after that you escalate to close the business.

This is why PUA's use to say that you shouldn't show interest at the beginning because don't showing interest creates comfort on women. But you can go there and show interest, it's up to you, but it doesn't work that well.

About you losing your self in the interaction, well, it's because don't even you believe in the bullshit you tell them, this is because you know that you are not like that Don't say bullshit, if you don't have an interesting life then try to have one, then your stories become true. Also avoid to become cocky, people hate cocky persons, they are just despicable..

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Perhaps I should have clarified more. I have a very sociable and charismatic personality, so most women I flirt with I am simply trying to make them feel pretty and good about themselves. Women are perceptive, nearly all of them know that I am being charming and not trying to get in their pants. Furthermore, I am really playful and touchy feely with both women and men. I will slap a women's but, lift her off the ground, or have her on my lap just for fun. Women like male friends, and that is what flirting leads to. The good thing about college is that girls will often hook up with their male friends if they are alpha enough. You come across as genuine by being a girls friend first before hooking up with her. In college the word gets around that you hookup with lots of girls, and many of the girls you hookup with become your advocates if you treat them right. It is a
Magnet effect.

oh ok, so i don't see your problem, i guess you are thinking too much on this PUA thing, relax, take a deep breath, you can't always be thinking on this!
I've already stop thinking on this and i started to use my autopilot, trust me, you don't need to make sure that you are all the time doing the right thing, just do it, your brain will start to act the right way!

Best of luck

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