Ok so iv recently landed myself a new job, I kind of stayed out of work until one apealled to me
its not the highest paid job but i enjoy it an thats the main thing. I serve around 300-500 coustomers a day so theres a fair share of women who come in. a few regulars also come in. One im going to attempt to number close next time shes in.

Im very into body language an im learning more an more about it recently. The question im searching for is
the hairflick that girls do. Some girls im not really even chatting to but when there placing there order i see the hair flick occasionaly. Can i take this as a genuine ioi or is it just somethin girls do.
I like to spot iois too give me a little boost to my confidence an im in the perfect enviroment for it.

I understand it is an ioi but whats the % of when a girls speaking to you in say the first minute an you notice this sign that she finds you attractive/goodlooking ??

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Don't try to oversimplify.

IOIs can be interpreted in millions of ways, but the best is to find patterns or an accumulation of IOIs. Because in the end, IOIs are just educated guesses right? Maybe she was annoyed with her hair tickling the side of her face, who knows right?

BUT, when you can put the hair flip together with some lip-licking, eye-contact and kino...THEN you can mold the game as you please. But this is the fun part, finding patterns.

Initial eye contact and smile CAN signify attraction, but thats all it is at the moment.

My favorite IOIs:

- Talking about you to her friend(s)/coworker(s)

Just like guys will nudge a friend to say "dude, look at that piece of ass," girls will do the same thing. Check if she's saying something to her friend (while glancing at you) when you walk away from them.

- She can overhear what you say

Are you ever really into a girl and you see her at a party/club and for some reason you can hear EVERYTHING she says to anybody? You are just in-tune to whatever she says, hoping she's talking to you. This is a social phenomenon. If she's into you, you can say "Man, I need a drink," and as you walk away, throw her a glance and see if she's looking. If she is, wave your hand and invite her to get that drink.

- She mimics your actions

Next time your having a beer/cocktail with a girl you're gaming, see if she starts drinking at the same pace as you. Course, some drink more than others and some like alcohol more than others so the results may vary. BUT the point is, IF she does get on your pace, that means she's a tad self-conscious about how you'll see her if she picks up the pace. It also means you are dictating her pace. She's focused on you so much that you are, essentially, mind fucking her.

Next time you are at a party/function, pick a wall or something to lean on near your target. See if she uses this opportunity to get some mini-alone time with you (leaning on a balcony with you, against a wall etc.) while you crack jokes about how the party needs more cowbell.

- Kino/messes with your things

We understand kino and its effects, but people tend to forget kino on the STUFF you have: your phone, watch, tie, hat etc.

This could be her way of avoiding actual physical contact because A.) She's a bit shy or B.) She ain't that easy to read.

But as a rule of thumb, when a girl is touching you physically or otherwise, she is looking for some kind of reciprocation. Maybe you are trying to get your iphone case back from her and she's wrestling you so you can't get it. Maybe she runs with your hat to make you chase her? All of these are obvious cries for "come play with me."

I'll say it again, IOIs are a pattern or accumulation of things. The hair flip alone is not a deal breaker. Make a conscious effort to note various IOIs and then just go scavenger hunting for them. If you get 2-3 IOIs, then make your move and keep on the look out so you have more proof. Because the more proof of IOIs you have, the more you'll know that she is in fact into you...and this leads to what we all strive for, confidence stemming from knowing exactly what is going on.

Hope this helps man.

The subject of body language is a good one, but the topic is far too detailed for a forum post. I'll try to give you some pointers though.

In general, guys over-value the hair flick thing. A lot of times...It means nothing more than something.

Without going too detailed into the subject, I would concentrate on her eyes. They don't lie.

You should know the difference between someone who looks at you sexually versus non-sexually, but if you don't...watch any romantic movie and notice how great actors capture a sexual vibe with their face and eyes more than their words.

Pupils will dilate on someone who is feeling aroused. Also look for flush skin and lips that turn more red.

Also look for touch. A girl will RARELY touch a guy she is repulsed by. It doesn't mean every touch signals they are ready for sex, but it's a fair indication of potential interest.

The psychology and neurology behind body language is very fascinating and I recommend you read more on the subject. We have a few articles on our website, but I'm too lazy right now to find a link.

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When a girl flicks her hair, give her an eye fuck. When she eye fucks you back (mirroring), you're good. Escalate. If she doesn't eye fuck you back, move on.

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