Alright gents, to make yourself naturally appear more attractive (positive) is to set goals for yourself. Achieve those goals. Celebrate them when you go out. Even if it is an internal celebration. You have achieved a small victory for yourself. You have accomplished a personal goal. You have a reason to be out celebrating. If you want to remain completely congruent, actually having a reason to be out demonstrates that you are proud of your success. One thing that is extremely attractive to women is a man who strives to achieve something and accomplishes it. And a man who takes pride in his accomplishments.

There was a quote I read a few weeks ago, I believe it was T.I. who said it, but it was something like"Most of you will be out partying every weekend like you've got something to be proud of, yet you haven't accomplished anything." And that should be your motivation to always be setting new and bigger goals for yourself and do everything you can to achieve them. It's called ambition. Another thing that is naturally attractive to women. Don't expect to be some lazy piece of shit who does nothing but sits around his mom's basement, never challenges himself to do anything, never strives to become more than that, and still expects to get laid.

What happens when you achieve goals that you set for yourself is your inner confidence shows through. You naturally give off a vibe of someone who is accomplished. Who is successful. It draws people in. People want to align with other successful people. Especially women. So when you hear all this money/status bullshit, Realize that it isn't the money. Its the amount of attraction that is created by the already achieved success and being proud of it. As well as the ambition and drive to achieve that success. When you are feeling good about yourself, you give off a good vibe. It's attractive. Set goals for yourself, accomplish them, and be proud of yourself. Become a better man, get better women along the way. That's how the world works.