Hey guys,

obviously this is an introduction topic so without further adieu.

My name's Bang, i'm 24 and i am from vancouver, canada, but i do a fair bit of traveling. I'm 6 feet tall with a skinny athletic 150 pound frame (if you can imagine 150 pounds being athletic). I play golf for a living, so because of that i travel a great deal. That's one of the reason that attracts me to this stuff, is because i travel so much and my shy nature i tended to have a difficult time meeting new people. But after a friend of mine introduced me to the book, "The Game," i've slowly begun to see things in a different light.

I've only gotten into the game for about a month now, but obviously with my new found interest in it, I've wanted to dive right in, I want to start projecting the best possible me.

Obviously playing a sport for a living i love to play sports. Basically i love competing, turning things into a game always seems to make things more interesting for me. I also love hiking and enjoying the beauty of the outdoors (i just recently drove from calgary to vancouver, and was driving through the rocky mountains, and the scenery is just unreal)

As for a very recent back story, the reason my buddy gave me "The Game" to read was i had recently gone through a break up, with the first girl i had fallen in love for. Now i've had girlfriends and have had sex and everything but never felt anything really close to love for a girl before this one. So when we broke up i was devastated and he told me to read it to help get me over it. I'll be honest and say it was good, mostly cuz i tend to be able to really lose myself in stuff like that. Anytime i read a book i find myself reading for hours and hours cuz i jsut get some absorbed by the world it creates and i just dont leave. So anyway after i was done with the book i didn't want it to end, so that's when i found this forum.

That leads to kind of what my goals are. I obviously would like to never feel like that again (not the falling in love part, but the feeling like crap part) and i think part of where that feeling comes from is the fear that, "What if i can't find that again?" Because of the fact that i can be shy and guarded when it comes to meeting new people, i thought it was a legitimate fear. So i want to eliminate that fear, i want the ability to go up to any girl and be able to open that set and be able to close that girl. That way i'm not stuck falling in love and feeling like i might not find this kind of connection again. I want it to be on my terms with the girl i choose and can look back and know it's the right girl, instead of thinking hey i let that connection slip past me cuz i wouldn't make a move.

Anyway that's my intro, look forward to interacting with the forum and everything.

Bang