So here's a hypothetical situation for you guys.

Let's say I'm a 23 year old guy who is struggling to meet the type of women I find truly attractive. So instead I settle for banging overweight girls and girls who aren't anything more than a 5 or 6 on the looks scale. And, by a stroke of bad luck and even worse judgment, I get one of them pregnant. The little girl is born, and a DNA test confirms the child is mine. I decide to be the best father I can be although I want nothing to do with the mother. Is this a death sentence for my already struggling game? Or could it be a boon?

My initial thought is that this will really hurt my chances of meeting good looking women, whether I want to bang them or enter a relationship. I do a lot of online dating and many women put in their profile specifically "NO KIDS!" It's a huge red flag that there's drama involved, and it's a load of responsibility. Unless these women were truly desperate, why would they choose me when there's a slew of childless guys wanting their attention.

As for meeting women out in public, I could always just not tell them about my child. But if it is something I want to pursue seriously I can't hide it forever. And I don't want to look back and say I was ashamed to say I'm a father.

But I'm also looking at it with a positive spin. Maybe it could help me, and give me a bit of an edge. I mean, women say that they don't want guys who are abusive / alcoholic / have drug problems / whatever but that's usually because they always end up dating that type. Maybe that little bit of adversity drives them? I think the biggest problem will be getting that initial interest. Once they meet me and decide they like me, they won't back out because I have a kid. They'll back out because of the same reasons beautiful women turned me down before (they may just use the kid as a convenient excuse).

I often ask women about this sort of thing just to judge how they react. They usually say "No, I don't think I could date someone with kids," or "maybe if I really liked him" but I've had a few really shallow (and beautiful) women tell me "well if he has a cute daughter or something it might honestly help his chances. I love babies!"

Could pushing an adorable baby girl around the mall in a stroller be a good conversation starter? A natural icebreaker?

I would love to hear your thoughts. Especially if there are any young single dads out there who have done it themselves.

I think that using the kid as a pick up tool is a bad idea. But maybe I'm wrong.

As of you having a baby hurting your chances in PUA, I don't think that's the case. Just meet women normally and don't make it a secret that you have a kid. Yea some women are turned down immediately. You don't need those women obviously.

But for a lot of them, it's not a big deal. Some even like the fact that you are a father because they can see you in that role and it can be a really positive quality.

As for the question, why would anyone pick the guy with the kid instead of the guy without ? Well because if things work out well then a kid can be quite rewarding.

I have a very pretty daughter who also does well in school. Some girls who are comfortable with me and who have seen me with my daughter have proposed some weird ideas like making babies for them without any financial obligations from my end.

I've tried sarging not mentioning the fact as well as sarging showing some pictures of my kid. It's all positive when girls see the pictures. Girls tend to qualify themselves a lot more after they see the pictures, like: they're good in financial matters, they're good at caring for kids, they can cook, they're good lovers and mothers and so on. Someone also keeps on mentioning she's a good fuck.

Everything is positive when you have a pretty daughter.

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Hey dude,

The key to getting with girls is too always be the guy you are and not give two fucks what anyone thinks about it! As a man, it is our job to lead women and show them what they want because women don't even know what they want. My old best friend Austin has 8 kids by 8 different women, they were all 8's or better, and they all new about all of his old kids.

What you have to understand is, women care more about what you think about them than what they think about you. Once you learn to use that to your advantage you will be unstoppable. Embrace who you are and embrace everything you possess. Don't be ashamed of it and don't ever feel a need to LIE to a girl. For what? You're a grown as man, why should you have to lie to anyone? If this one is not digging you, fuck them- that one will. Attitude will push you through.

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